Grin and Barrett

Smell the Roses

2012-01-30T01:00:00.000-08:00

Today I am linking up with the Lovely Little Things blog and stepping a bit out of my comfort zone. If you would like to know more about the "Smell the Roses" link up, check out Jessica's blog!

Every week Jessica assigns a task for her readers and fellow bloggers to accomplish by the end of the week. Last week, the task was to call a friend and catch up. No texting! Easy right? Well, since this is the first week I am starting this link up, I do not have last week's task accomplished. Maybe I should do both this week {I am such an over-achiever}.

This week's Smell the Roses task is to write down 5 things that you love about yourself.

It's Monday, I know. This task should brighten up your day! I have a conference tomorrow all day that is related to all things financial aid. Trust me, you don't want to know. Plus, I have about a ton of homework this week for grad school, which is what I do here. So, no excuses. Do not let the busyness of life get in the way! Let's make the best of this week and really love ourselves!

P.S. Tonight is an all-new episode of "The Bachelor"! Be sure to tune in tonight and check out my blog tomorrow for the Bach Rehash!

Happy Monday!

7 Day Work-Up

2012-01-29T09:42:00.000-08:00

I got inspired to show how my week has gone, and this week I have been quite the domestic. Mom-you would be proud!

I got the idea for this post from Lovely Little Things. I thought it would be a great way to document my week.

1. Post-cards from West Egg Cafe. Pondering what to do with them.

2. Frame from Ikea. Wanted for a long time!

3. Made the Buffalo Chicken Pasta-again! I cannot get enough of this recipe!

4. This is a message between the hubs and me. Playful love ♥

1. The post-cards are now framed and placed above the sink with Command Velcro strips.

2. Keep Calm and Just Graduate- 'nough said.

3. Trying the Green Goodness from Bolthouse Farms. Delicious!

1. New pillows from Ikea. Comfy and stylish.

2. New York Lamp from Target. Perfect for our reading corner.

3. New rug from Ikea.

Well, that's about it. Our apartment looks great. Feels homey and cozy. Now, I just wish we had some winter weather to join us!

Happy Sunday! Enjoy the rest of your weekend.

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Double Feature

2012-01-28T08:31:00.000-08:00

Two posts? Yep. It's a double feature today because I wanted to spotlight a blog that I found that's both unique and authentic.

Drum roll please.

As soon as I found this blog, I knew we needed to be friends. Not only does the name rock, but so does the blogger. When I asked Annalise, aka, Aunie how she would describe herself, this is what she had to say:

"Well...I kind of put it all out there! I really like writing poems, and have a few on my site [that] tend to not make sense... but that's poetry, right? I have a bearded dragon. He is adorable and loves his green bean salads".

Awesome, right?

So if you haven't checked out her blog, you really should! She has some great insight, and a quirky style that is so endearing.

What are some of your favorite blogs out there? Do you find you have some blog friends with similar interests, or do you tend to gravitate to those who are different from you?

If you would like to be featured please email me at the address on my contact page. I am currently spotlighting blogs for free. All that I ask, if that you share my blog button! Help a blog sister out!

Happy Saturday!

Weekend Love

2012-01-28T07:46:00.000-08:00

it's the weekend.

that means it's time for weekend love. images of the weekend are relaxing, and what better place to get them than our good ol' past time, Pinterest.

1. Weekend projects. I have a couple myself to get on. I am making a canvas for my sister for the nursery, so this is on my list of to do's.

Pinned here.

2. Pancakes make my Sunday morning.

Pinned here.

3. A good {one} glass of wine.

Pinned here. Please drink responsibly.

4. A heaping bowl of Taco Soup from My Blessed Life.


Pinned here.

5. coffee. 'nough said.

Perfect for the coffee shop. Pinned here.

LOVE this coffee shop. Pinned here.

beautiful weekend.

What are your plans this weekend? What images put you into a state of weekend love?

Happy Saturday!

High Five for Friday!

2012-01-27T01:00:00.000-08:00

Today is FRIDAY! I am linking up with From My Grey Desk Blog High Five for Friday, which is about my five favorite things about this week.

1. This quote has saved my life! Literally, no joke!

2. My new blog template by Green Tangerine Design! I worked with Allison and she did an amazing job! What do you think?

3. Seeing my sister's belly grow and grow. She calls it her "weird gut", but I call it my precious niece.

4. I was so happy to get my My Publisher Photo book! It was amazing and practically free!I have a friend referral special, so if you want one, leave me a comment with you email address!

5. Can you look this good everyday? I really enjoyed watching the Real Housewives of Beverly Hills finale. This is the first season I have gotten into it and I just love how they try and act like they're friends when they don't like each other, or how they act like they're enemies when they love each other. Who knows? It's deliciously excessive television!

I am also linking up with hollie takes notes for

Revenge Recap {One}

2012-01-26T10:53:00.000-08:00

I am so excited, because this is my first Revenge Recap! I have been watching this juicy evening soap since the beginning, and I have to say, I am hooked. Every Wednesday night I am anticipating the drama that is Emily Thorne's life, who is really Amanda Clarke, who switched names with an ex-juvie/stripper. Good stuff right?

So, now Emily (Amanda) is back to take vengeance on the Graysons. The Graysons are a conglomerate , practically royalty in the Hamptons, who are ultimately responsible for Emily's father, David Clarke's incarceration and untimely death. If you have not seen this show, the twists, turns, and connections are enough to make your head spin, but makes the show that much more appealing!

Sadly, last night was a re-run...but last week's episode was amazing!

so here's how it all went down:

The previous week, Emily discovers that Charlotte Grayson is in fact, her half sister. Emily's father (David Clark) was Victoria Grayson's lover. Somehow I saw this coming. As Conrad and Victoria's divorce gets more and more heated, this discovery gives Conrad skyscrapers of dirt over Victoria. She better watch out!

via ABC

Victoria believes Amanda Clarke is the one who set the fire at Mason Treadwell’s place to cover the theft of the interview tapes. Speaking of the tapes, Emily plants them inside Amanda’s bag to frame her for the fire. Shes swipes a note with Amanda’s handwriting she finds while rifling through her things.

Conrad swipes Charlotte’s hairbrush for DNA testing. Victoria also wants to use DNA to prove that the girl who claims to be Amanda Clarke is the real deal. That’s why she invites her over for tea. Victoria has Ryan Huntley use a spoon that Amanda licked to use for a sample. Huntley says the preliminary results from Charlotte’s DNA test indicate that Conrad is not her father.

via ABC

Conrad dismisses the lawyers to have a private chat with his soon-to-be-ex-wife. He lets Victoria know that she should take whatever her offers her. If they go to trial, it’ll be public knowledge that she had a child after a forbidden love affair with the most hated man in America. This puts Victoria in a precarious spot. It also has an eavesdropping Ashley (Victoria Grayson's assistant) wondering why she invested herself in a family that appears ready to implode.

Daniel plans an intimate, romantic dinner on the boat where he first met Emily. A little storm isn’t going stop Daniel from his objective of the evening. He gets down on one knee, pulls out a ring and asks Emily to marry him. She answers yes! The two of them kiss, hug and laugh in the middle of a torrential downpour. Of course, things are just as stormy inside once they break the news to Victoria Grayson.

via ABC

are you hooked yet?

I think next week is all new! It better be! Make sure to watch Wednesday nights at 10 p.m. on ABC. It's getting good!

Have a great Thursday! Only {one} day until Friday! Be sure to check out G&B tomorrow. I am going to link up with From My Grey Desk Blog for High Five for Friday, a weekly post about my five favorite things about this week!

Buffalo Chicken Pasta

2012-01-25T06:32:00.000-08:00

adapted from How Sweet It Is

I love a good buffalo chicken sandwich, buffalo wings, even buffalo chicken pizza. So the other night when I had one of my buffalo cravings, I had to improvise with what I had. I wasn't sure if this recipe was going to work, but the fact that I couldn't take a picture before it was partially eaten just goes to show how good this is! {Go me!}

So here's what you'll need for this recipe:

1 pound pasta
3 boneless, skinless cooked chicken breasts
1 tablespoon butter
1 tablespoon flour
1 1/2 cups of milk
4 oz. of monterrey jack cheese
1/3 cup of cheddar cheese {more for topping}
1/3 cup buffalo wing sauce
salt and pepper
chopped green onion, cilantro, blue or Gorgonzola cheese for topping.

What You'll Need To Do:

Pre-heat the oven to 375 degrees.
While the pasta is cooking, heat a medium sized saucepan over medium heat.
Add the butter and once it's melted and bubbling, add the flour and whisk quickly for 1-2 minutes until the mixture is golden in color.
Add the milk and turn the heat to low and stir and continue to stir until milk thickens.
Add in grated cheeses and continue to stir until smooth. Stir in buffalo wing sauce. Add salt and pepper to taste.
Spray a baking dish {9x13} with non--stick spray {I ran out so I used butter}
Add the pasta, chicken, and then pour over cheesy buffalo sauce.
Sprinkle with cheese and bake for 25-35 minutes, until the cheese is golden brown.
Remove from oven and top with Gorgonzola, cilantro, green onion, and drizzle with buffalo sauce.
Enjoy! Goes best with an ice cold beverage.

Happy Wednesday!

My Publisher Photo Book

2012-01-24T11:32:00.000-08:00

So, my new blog template has arrived! I have to say, I feel at home already. Speaking of home, something arrived to my home that made my heart smile this week. I actually saw a post about this on Young House Love, and immediately ran to make my own. These days, photos can pile up over time. They pile up in boxes, on computers, and even get lost in the shuffle. With photos of special occasions, such as our engagement photos, I knew I wanted to put them where they couldn't get lost and the proofs could get damaged.

I haven't thought much about archiving or backing up photos, until one day {dun, dun, dun!} my computer crashed. What would have happened to all of our photos if I didn't have them on the CD, or what if a freak fire/flood/apocalytpic occurence happened and I lost the CD. Apparently, my brain works in worst case scenarious- voila! An epiphany. Invest in a photo book grasshopper {I use grasshopper when speaking wisdom talk}. So, you guessed it, that's what I did. The end product-amazing.

And a little secret, I went to Retail Me Not and got the book for free! That's right! I said free. I only paid shipping, which was $9.99! So I got a roughly $40 book {when you count all the extras} for $10. I was pleased, so was the Mr. So for future reference, whenever you invest in anything, check Retail Me Not first!

This product looks amazing, and you can check it out on my G&B Facebook Page.

Have a great Tuesday!

Hi Everybody!

2012-01-19T10:28:00.000-08:00

So, as of now, life has been pretty busy. Work is picking up, {January is a big time for people to go back to school}, but it's a blessing to have so many new students. This week, hubs and I have worked diligently on home making and have really made our apartment feel like home. I have to say out of our 4 apartments total, yes, I said 4, this by far is the best. We have rearranged the living room, dining area, and kitchen. Next, we are going to tackle our bedroom to make it more cozy and functional. We are not DIYers, but we pretend really well!

I also have started my first, last? week of grad school. I am taking 3 courses at one time and in 8 weeks will be able to breathe normally again. I have two ministry courses and one human services course, and I am already thinking about what I will do when I am done with my Master's. A big part of me wants to continue into the doctoral program, the other smaller part of me just wants to take a break and maybe tackle it again in 5 years. The only problem is once I stop, I may not want to start back up again. So that's where I am. I have to say everything that I've wanted to accomplish this new year is happening. It's a great feeling!

Also, I am working on giving my blog more pizazz. I am working closely with Allison from Green Tangerine Design, and I have to say her blog designs are amazing! I wanted a more polished, professional look because I hope to really expand this into something more...I am not sure what, but something. Right now, its a fun hobby, and somewhat ego boosting for me to be able to talk about myself so much {just kidding}. Really, its something I enjoy and I get so inspired from blogs, I hope to do that for others. I mean, I get everything from recipes, to fashion, to organization ideas, etc. So this is something I really want to keep doing for years to come!

I hope you have all enjoyed and I appreciate you all reading! Thank you and there's more to come!

Blog-duction

2012-01-15T09:59:00.000-08:00

Hi everyone! I know I have been M.I.A. lately, but for good reason. Ever since the new year I have been delving into DIY websites, blogs, and home goods stores trying to figure how to best organize and re-purpose everything in our apartment. Nothing was spared...Poor decor. However, last night I was "bit" by the re-arranging {crazy} bug and it lasted well into the morning. Thankfully, the fun wasn't done so I got to start again later this morning. We moved furniture around, added pops of color, took out some {didn't think I needed} accessories, and cleaned. I am going to post pictures later this week of our progress. Just a rundown:

We moved our living room chair to be our corner reading chair.
We changed the desk nook into our 'business command center'. A place for bills, documents, school books, school papers, etc.
We moved our desk from storage into the corner of the living room. First off, I get to display my cute office decor. I can watch TV and blog. I have a bright and sunny place next to the window to work on my never ending load of graduate work.
We moved our dining room buffet into a couch bench.
Moved our crowded books to the top of our desk nook to show them off.
Added some cute kitchen decor to the top of our cabinets
More and more...

We are even going to attempt to rearrange our bedroom. We'll see how that goes...

Also, I am working to get an all new look for my blog, {no the last background change was not it}. So I am really excited for what it's going to look like. So until next time {hopefully, not so much time in between}.

Have a great Sunday!

American Stuffed Peppers

2012-01-07T19:15:00.000-08:00

So to go along with my unofficial week of recipes, I have another- American Stuffed Peppers. My mom made these growing up so when I got married, these were one of the first things I cooked for my new husband. I have looked for other recipes on websites, but I could never walk away from the original. You can vary these however you like. My stuffed peppers have an Italian flare, but topping with cheddar cheese bring these right back home to the U.S.A.

Here's what you'll need:

1 lb. of ground turkey {or beef}
1 Tbsp of extra virgin olive oil
4 to 6 bell peppers {green, yellow, orange or red. It's up to you}
one small/medium onion
1 pack of Ten Minute Brown Rice
2 Tbsp of dried oregano
2 Tbsp of dried parsley
2 tsp of garlic powder
1 jar of tomato sauce
1 cup of shredded cheddar cheese
1/2 cup of shredded Parmesan cheese
salt and pepper to taste
1/4 cup of water

Here's what you'll do:

Preheat the oven to 400 degrees
Begin boiling water for the rice and once the water has boiled, add the rice and cook for 10 minutes.
Add 1 Tbsp of olive oil to the pan and begin browning the turkey meat
Once the meat has cooked nearly through add the onions and soften for approx. 6 minutes
Once the meat has cooked thoroughly and the onions have sweat, add the dried herbs, spices, and tomato sauce
Take the bell peppers and cut off the hat of the pepper and discard the core and seeds inside
Place the bell peppers in a baking dish and add the 1/4 cup of water that cover the bottom of dish
Once the rice has cooked through place the cooked rice in the meat sauce and add the Parmesan cheese
Stir and combine all ingredients then spoon the mixture to fill each bell pepper
Once the peppers are filled place in the oven to cook the pepper through approx. 35 to 45 minutes
After the peppers are tender remove from the oven and top with shredded cheddar cheese
Enjoy!

I hope you enjoy this quick and easy meal. If you have any suggestions or comments please comment below!

Have a great weekend!

Easy Turkey Veggie Soup

2012-01-06T08:57:00.000-08:00

I am starting my new routine, which includes 1 hour of exercise 5 days a week. Can you get that math right? So, I decided after my work out to make an easy and quick soup recipe {also it carries over well for the next day to take to lunch}. I had a pound of turkey and some fresh veggies, so those were the base for my soup. I also had some broth on hand. Perfect time for soup! So here's what you'll need:

1 pound of ground turkey {also works well with ground beef}
2 zucchini
1 yellow bell pepper
1 small/medium onion
i jar of tomatoes, or 2 fresh tomatoes
2 large carrots
3 stalks of celery {I include the leaves for the intense celery flavor}
1 cup of chicken broth {you may need more}
1 cup of beef broth {you may need more}
dried parsley
dried rosemary
salt and pepper to taste
1 dash of nutmeg {makes all soups and chili better!}
a few dashes of garlic powder
a few dashes of onion and celery salt
few dashes of steak seasoning {this works well to flavor the meat}
a few tsp of tomato paste to thicken the soup
any other veggies you want {the bigger the pot the more things you can add}

{I don't measure too perfectly because it's really up to your taste}

What you'll need to do:

Start by browning the meat and season with steak seasoning, salt, pepper, and garlic powder.
After browning the meat add the onions, and soften.
After the onions have softened add the carrots, celery, bell pepper, zucchini and tomatoes.
After the veggies have cooked and softened slightly add the broth to cover the meat and veggie mixture.
Add other seasonings, herbs, and tomato paste.
After the soup has begun to boil add a dash of nutmeg.
Let boil for 4 to 5 minutes and reduce heat to simmer and let simmer for 30 to 40 minutes.
I enjoy my soup with a slice of garlic bread, but you can enjoy with crackers or pita chips.

My Snuggie Dream

2012-01-05T08:39:00.000-08:00


Sweater love you can buy here

If a snuggie looked like this, I would buy it. Who's with me? The color; the native american inspired pattern. All of it is amazing!

Who can I write to at Snuggie Inc. to make this happen?

Have a fabulous Thursday!

Easy, Meaty Chili

2012-01-04T06:54:00.000-08:00

The cold weather has finally arrived here in Georgia. I don't know about you, but I love it. The colder weather has always suited me than the dead heat of Summer. I love the sweaters, cozy socks and sweats, wood fires, and hot chocolate! So, with the colder weather comes soups, stews, and chili. My favorite recipe of course is the chili, which I am going to show you today. Now, this originated from my mother, but I have spiced it up a bit, because what's chili without a little kick? I prefer to use turkey meat {can hardly stand the taste of ground beef anymore} but you use whatever meat your prefer. If you are going to use beef, I suggest grass fed, and lean. So here we go. I don't have pictures for every step, but its so easy, you should get the hang of it.

Here's what you'll need:

1 pound of ground turkey {or ground meat(s) of your choice}
2 cans of beans {one black, one kidney}
1 can of tomato sauce
1 jar of diced or whole tomatoes {canned tomatoes are not good, too many chemicals}
1 red bell pepper diced {better than green, and a lot more Vitamin C}
1 red or white onion diced
2 tsp of minced garlic
1 packet of Original Chili Seasoning {I prefer McCormick and they already have everything you need measured out, so it works for me!}
2 dashes of nutmeg {it's my secret}
approximately 1 to 2 cups beef broth {I know it doesn't make sense with turkey meat, but hey its one less thing clogging your arteries}
1 seeded jalapeno diced
1 tsp of Texas Pete or hot sauce of your choice
salt and pepper to taste
1 tbsp of extra virgin olive oil

What you'll need to do:

Heat a pan to medium heat and add non-stick spray and 1 tbsp of olive oil.
Add thawed ground turnkey and cook for 5 to 6 minutes.
After meat has heated through, add onions, bell pepper, garlic and jalapeno.
Brown the meat and cook vegetables until they are soft.
Add cans of beans and jar of tomatoes along with salt and pepper.
Stir meat, beans, and tomatoes, tomato sauce, and add beef broth until it completely covers the mixture approx. 1 to 1 1/2 cups.
Turn up heat and add chili mix, nutmeg, and hot sauce.
Once mixture has began to boil, reduce to a simmer and cook covered on low/medium heat for 40 minutes stirring occasionally.
After 40 minutes, all ingredients should be cooked through.

Toppings:

Tortilla chips
Cheese
Diced jalapeno
Sour Cream
Diced tomatoes
Anything you want!

I hope you enjoy! Have a great Wednesday!

January Desktop

2012-01-03T07:29:00.000-08:00

So it is January 3, which means its back to work I go. I have enjoyed the break so much and I am so grateful that I have a job that allows me so much time off during the holidays. Being back at work in this new year also means organizing, and getting my January Desktop Calendar from Smashing Magazine. I discovered this desktop calendar from this blog here, The Small Things Blog, and I have used one every month since. Here is the one I am using this month:

You can choose from many different options. I am slightly calendar obsessed, so this is perfect for me. I hop everyone had a wonderful new year, and try to keep your head up during this first day back. I know I will have to!

Have a great Tuesday!

Passions

2012-01-02T13:57:00.000-08:00

I would say that passion is one of the most important things in a person's life. The truth is passions come and go and they change. For me, as a kid I was passionate about being a singer or actress, or becoming a famous author. Today, those things revolve around things closer to earth. One of my most sincere passions is to have a family. I don't know if it happens to all married women, but once you're married you begin to think about children, and you start to wonder when and how it will happen. I have been thinking about it a lot lately, and I am concerned about the kind of parent I will be. It also makes me think about the children out there without homes. Growing up, I always said that I would adopt at least {one} child.

The day I found out my sister was pregnant, I began to think about my own children and all of the children out there without anyone. I know that there are so many children and babies to be that need a healthy, happy, and loving home. Where do I play a part in this? Of course, I want to experience pregnancy, but I moreso want to experience motherhood. This may not happen today, tomorrow, or a month from now, but it's a new year. It's time to re-evaluate my life and what goals I have. One of the first things on my list is to get healthy physically. Bring on the fruits, veggies, whole grains, and lean meats! Also, exercising is important as well. Married life can be stressful, so it's important to take care of yourself. This has a lot to do with future parenting. A healthy family begins with the parents.

I hope that you have a chance to evaluate what's important to you this year! It could change your life!

My Favorite Video- Had to Share

2011-12-31T09:56:00.000-08:00

Have you seen this commercial? I must say, I hope my baby is this cute someday. Minus the throwing of the fire extinguisher. Have a good laugh and enjoy the new year!

Cheers to the New Year

2011-12-31T08:26:00.000-08:00

Happy New Year's Eve! Here's hoping that 2012 is a happy, healthy, and blog-filled year! I am so excited for things to come. Tonight the hubs and I are heading to hang out with some of our friends from our community-play games, eat, and ring in the New Year. I hope you all have magnificent plans and stay safe. Thanks for reading and following my blog this year!

Cheers! xoxo

Is it Friday already?

2011-12-30T08:26:00.000-08:00

Last night I spent time to myself {not by choice, hubs had to work} and thought I would try out a new recipe. I got the idea from a Facebook post about pumpkin and pasta. Together. Yes. I know, it's amazing isn't it? So, in the spirit of loving pumpkin year round, I thought I would try out this recipe. I present to you, Home Alone Pumpkin Pasta. Home Alone for love of the movie, Home Alone because I was, and of course, the pumpkin pasta part. This recipe is easy and only takes a few ingredients.

Here's what you'll need:

2 tablespoons of unsalted butter

1 cup of heavy cream

1/2 cup of Parmesan cheese, more for topping

1/4 cup of fresh parsley, or 4 tablespoons of dried parsley

2 tablespoons of dried oregano

1 15 oz. can of pumpkin puree

salt and pepper to taste

1 pound of whole grain penne pasta

1 chopped onion

1 cup of reserved pasta water

1. First step: Boil water and add salt to water.

2. Once the water has boiled add the package of whole grain penne pasta.

3. While the pasta is cooking chop the onion. I use red onion because it gets sweet when cooked.

4. After the pasta is cooked, remove pasta and reserve 1 cup of pasta water.

5. Now add butter to same pot and melt on medium-high heat.

6. Add onion to butter and stir constantly until onions are soft, approx. 6 minutes.

7. After the onions are soft add the can of pumpkin puree and heavy cream and bring to a boil. {I realize there's no picture, but you get the idea}.

8. Add salt and pepper to taste. Also add the parsley and oregano as the sauce cooks.

9. Once the sauce is boiling add the pasta, pasta water, and Parmesan cheese.

10. Once the pasta is added and everything is stirred add additional cheese and herbs.

There you have it! It is delicious, however, you have to make sure to add as much seasoning as possible because the pumpkin and cream are not flavored. The cream sauce needs a generous helping of cheese, salt, pepper, and dried herbs. That will definitely help to flavor this pasta dish.

I hope you enjoy! And if you're home alone like me while eating, this goes best with a chick flick!

Have a great Friday!

Coolest Blog Ever

2011-12-29T07:47:00.000-08:00

I know it sounds silly to put another blog out there, but I am an avid blog reader. I see it as the daily news. What happens in people's lives is much more interesting to me than politics, robberies, or how bad the traffic is. I like to read about people who like clothes, like helping people, like family time, like cooking, like handmade crafts, like anything else! So, I ran across this blog and I am not sure if it's her humor {which is similar to mine} or her cute and transparent first time mommy stories, but I have a blog crush on {The Daybook}. It is incredible! First of all, she takes the most adorable pictures in the most chic clothes I have ever seen. It's like my dream wardrobe. Her name is Sydney, she's married to Tyson {whom she affectionately calls Tys}, and has a new baby boy Everett {whom she affectionately calls, "Ever". Is that not totes cute?} So I recommend you check out her blog and read all about her life. I guess I am intrigued by her birth and life after birth stories, since I have an expectant sister. It prepares me for that time in my life someday. It also reminds me to cherish my life pre-baby. I am just glad I am able to take long showers {which apparently happens less after birth}. So please check out the blog here. Oh inspiration!

End of Year Review

2011-12-28T12:04:00.000-08:00

Pinned here.

I know that a lot of blogs and websites are putting their highlights and lowlights of the year 2011 as we knew it. I have some of my own and wanted to share them with you. Here are the top ten things that happened to or around me this year!

1. Celebrated one year of marriage! {This was a highlight by all means. One year of marriage is exciting, humbling, and definitely a learning experience. We celebrated by taking a 5 day beach vacation, our first besides our honeymoon! It was wonderful}.
2. Moved out of our not so great loft into a great apartment. {If they tell you that a loft is a great idea, let me warn you. The concrete floors are cold and hard. The roof may or may not leak multiple times. There is 20 feet of dead space that you pay to heat and cool. So moving-great!}
3. Starting graduate school. {This is definitely a highlight! I started my Master's of Arts in Human Services and went full force. I am due to graduate May 2012! Its exhilarating and terrifying, but I have accomplished one of my biggest goals. That's going to be a great one to cross off on my 2012 goals list.}
4. My sister is pregnant! {I get to be an aunt next year, but part of the fun of being an aunt, or a mother for that mother is the pregnancy. First off, you get to experience one of God's greatest miracles. Second, you get to experience a closeness unparallelled by any other. Third, you get cute baby gifts and 'attention' for your bump. Fourth, your husband has to get you all the delicious food you want. Fifth, your family has complete bragging rights. So for her good looks, I will give credit to myself. Even if she is only 1/3 mine}.
5. My brother in law came home safe from Afghanistan. {There's not much else to say other than it feels good he's home and gets to experience the holidays with our and his family. If you have a military man/woman in your family, you can understand}.
6. Got a new hair cut. {I have curly hair. There is only so much you can do. This is a small thing, but it's a big thing for my hair. It gives me flexibility and 10 pounds off of my head and shoulders}.
7. Lowlight: Logan's step father passed away. While this was a terrible time, it brought so many things together. I think that with death comes new life. New perspectives are born. People remember what really matters and who really matters. I think it helps renew a new appreciation for life}.
8. My blog takes on new life. {Although I love the introspective posts of my past, I also want to include the things I love. I definitely want to include my new found love for cooking, crafting, decorating, organizing, etc.; while also keeping the integrity of my beliefs, values, love for friends and family, and most of all the Lord}.
9. Celebrated the first quarter of life. {25 years comes and goes and my first 25 years was pretty marvelous. I can't say much bad about it. I have made mistakes, had plenty of laughter and tears, and already found and married my soul mate. Not many people can say that. I am blessed}.
10. And the final thing is this...I have lived and learned another year. {A year with my family, with my husband, with my friends, with my co-workers, and with things that mean the most. Every year bring ups and downs, but even with the downs, I appreciate that much more the good things that have been. I pray for an incredible new year. A year filled with accomplishments, surprises, and incredible love}.

Friday Favorites

2011-12-16T11:31:00.000-08:00

1. Favorite Christmas movie.


"Little full, lotta sap".

2. Favorite Christmas song.


"A Baby Changes Everything"- Faith Hill

3. Favorite Christmas treat.

Starbuck's Gingerbread Latte :) Heaven.

4. Favorite Christmas event.

Stone Mountain Christmas. If you want to know more click here.

5. Favorite Gift idea.

Gift in a jar. Pinned here.

So there you have my favorites for this week! I hope your enjoying your 9 remaining days until Christmas!

Have a great Friday!

Wrap It Up

2011-12-15T06:55:00.000-08:00

I really have been obsessed with Pinterest lately and all of their gift wrapping ideas. So I have chosen three of m favorite wrapping techniques that you can use this Christmas season. I really like a classic, personal style of wrapping presents. Not only does it make the gifted feel special, but it makes the giftee look like they took some time into wrapping, and not just purchasing the gift. So here we go!


Pinned here.


Pinned here.

Pinned here.

These are just my top three, but you can create your own personal wrapping style. Every year I change it, so last year I went with the classic Christmas wrapping paper and bows, but I added a name tag similar to the one above. The brown paper I love! It just looks homemade and really impressive.

What are your fave gift wrapping ideas?

Only 10 days until Christmas! Have a great Thursday!

2011-12-14T10:13:00.000-08:00

1. ~~Organize my closet and bathroom.~~

2. ~~Complete the second Twilight book (I know. I am lame and far behind).~~

3. ~~Make one craft on my own and with my own flare!~~

4. ~~Have a group of people over that I know so well~~, and don't know so well to hang out!

5. Make a chocolate pumpkin cheesecake.

6. ~~Have all of my family together again (I hope!)~~

7. ~~Only eat fast food once a week.~~ Replacing this with trying two new recipes from Pinterest. :)

8. ~~Give clothes away to a local shelter or co-op.~~

9. ~~Decorate for Christmas!~~

10. ~~Look at purchasing a new car.~~

11. ~~Begin a plan for paying off student loan debt.~~

12. Surprise my neighbor with flowers!

The marked out ones are the goals I have completed! How many have you done?

Have a great Wednesday!

In 30 Minutes or Less (No not the movie)

2011-12-13T09:31:00.000-08:00

I know that everyone is hustling and bustling with the holiday season here! It's crazy how many parties, events, and loved ones can overcome your entire life. I am kid-less (for now) so I can't imagine adding on the stress of little ones tearing around the house and messing everything up (gotta love 'em though). The truth is, I love to clean. I mean, really. It's kind of always been "my thing". So when I have guests coming, I love for the house to look spotless.

The truth is, with grad school, a full time job, and other things, I find it hard to clean the apartment top to bottom, especially before every event. So, I have come up with a 20 to 30 minute routine that you can use before every holiday happening at your humble abode. I think it's fun to see how fast and how effectively I can do it, so time yourself! See how fast and how well you can do it, and by the way, this is not leisurely cleaning. The pace has to be faster than the normal pick up routine.

Let's say you have a party at your house at 7 p.m. and it is now 4:30 p.m. You have to make sure the food is prepared, you look your best, and that your house is sparkling and clean. Here are the steps to get your house in tip top shape.

Steps for a Mad Clean House

1. Start by minimizing clutter and picking up around the house. It's difficult to clean when you have shoes, clothes, papers, toys and dishes everywhere. This should take no longer than 5 min.

2. Next, go to each room and spray a mist of dusting polish and window cleaner on furniture, windows, mirrors, and others such as ottomans, or home accessories. This should take no longer than 2 min.

3. In each bathroom spray a mist of Lysol on counters, sinks, and toilets.Then window cleaner on mirrors and dispense toilet bowl cleaner in the toilet bowl. This should take no longer than 2 min.

4. In the kitchen spray a mist of cleaner on countertops, refrigerators, cabinets, sinks, and any other surface. You may also want to spray a mist of window cleaner on the microwave and oven. This should take no longer than 1 min.

5. After each surface is sprayed allow to sit for a few minutes while you empty all trash bins in bedrooms, bathrooms, offices, and the kitchen. Place all trash in one bag and take to dumpster or outside trash receptacle. This should take no longer than 3 min.

5. After you have emptied all of the trash bins, spray with a mist of Lysol and place a fresh trash bag in all bins. This should take no longer than 2 min.

6. Then go in all rooms and wipe down the sprayed surfaces. It's best to have multiple wiping cloths, like a cloth for dusting, paper towel for windows, and a separate paper towel for bathrooms and toilets. This should take no longer than 2 min.

7. After wiping all of the surfaces, spray fabrics with a fabric refresher such as Febreze. This should take no longer than 3 min.

8. The next step is mopping and vacuuming. If you have an older child, or another person to help, that would help to save time. Sprinkle a light carpet refresher on all carpets. I tend to sprinkle around the room towards the outside of the room because when vacuuming it tends to spread the scent and it saves time to do a portion around the room.

Then as they are vaccumming all rooms, sweep the kitchen floor and place all contents in trash. Then take a Swiffer Mop n Go and go around the kitchen and bathrooms. This should take no longer than 4 min.

9. Once all rooms have been vacuumed and mopped, do a last minute run through the house. This would be a great time to light scented candles throughout your home. I personally like to bake a batch of fresh cookies so that the whole house smells warm and festive. You can also use the Glade Christmas candles. I like to mix a berry scent with a pine so that it smells like Christmas all throughout the house. This should no longer than 3 min.

So total, that equals to about 30 minutes! It's a great way to save time and make your house clean and fresh! Now, I will leave you with a disclaimer: If your house has not been regularly cleaned, or if you have more clutter, this strategy may need to be altered and extra time given. My apartment is about 1000 sq.ft. and it's just me and my husband. I usually recruit him to help me, which saves a lot of time! I am not a stuffer (throwing everything in the closet until the guests leave). I like to clean with purpose. It's for my guests, but I also love spending time in a clean and organized home. Everyone is different, so do what works for you!

I am also not a big fan of bleach, unless used in the shower. The goal is to make your home smell clean, warm, and inviting, not like a hospital. So, cut down on the noxious fumes, and use scents that are light. I personally use Lysol spray and a lemon scented cleanser. It smells clean but not sterile. The candles add a lovely scent as well. If you are having a dinner party, it's best to have as many clean dishes as possible, so be sure to wash your dishes while you are cleaning so that everything is clean, dry and ready to go!

I hope you enjoy this holiday season! Remember, cleaning doesn't have to be a nightmare. A little each day goes a long way!

Have a great Tuesday!

The Weekend

2011-12-12T11:05:00.000-08:00

So, this weekend Logan and myself attended a white elephant party. I have never been to one of these parties before, and if you haven't, I strongly suggest you go to one or have one yourself. So, if you haven't been before there are a few ways it could work. A white elephant party is like a gag gift exchange. You put a cap on the cost of gifts, which for our party was around $5. You then purchase one or more gifts for others attending the party. Everyone comes with their gifts and places them in the center of the room. Everyone sits around the gifts and they either choose a number, or one can be randomly selected for them when they arrive. After everyone has their number, you go in order from first to last and the first person chooses a gift and opens it. Now, the next person to choose a gift can choose to steal a previously opened gift, or can choose an unopened gift. Every time a person's number is called, they can choose to steal a previously opened gift or a new gift. If a person's gift is stolen they are free to open another gift of their choice, or steal another. It goes on and on you see. There is a limit to how many times a gift can be stolen. For instance, our gifts could only be stolen three times. So the fourth person to receive a gift can keep it forever. It's quite magical.

We had quite the comedians at our party. Some of the gifts were super practical (and awkward), like underwear. Some of the gifts were old, like a boombox from 1992. Some of the gifts were cheesy, like a Snuggie (that got stolen quite a bit). There was also the much sought after "free babysitting". That one was tossed around like a steaming hot potato. All in all, we had a great time with friends, food, and we white elephanted it up all night long!

Oh, by the way, it's 13 days until Christmas and none of my shopping is done! I mean none! Does that make me a bad person?

Happy Monday!

December Desktop Calendar

2011-12-07T10:52:00.000-08:00

I am a festive person and for me to feel in the Christmas spirit, especially at work, I need a little help. I found this link from this small blog here. You should check it out! You should also go to this link here and dress up your desktop. They have so many cute, funny, and pretty choices. It was hard for me to choose, but I went with this:

Have a great Wednesday!

18 days until Christmas!

Thankful

2011-11-29T10:23:00.000-08:00

My family on Thanksgiving

So this post is so late, and I am not sure anyone else besides me really even noticed. I have terrible news...My amazing HP computer has a broken hard drive. The hard drive one day just went caplooey (not sure how you spell this word)! So now that my blogging time has been cut short, I haven't been able to share about my Thanksgiving.

The day was wonderful filled with food and family. I am so thankful that my sister has her husband for the holidays this year. They are expecting their first child and it's nice and comforting to know he is home during her pregnancy. My grandfather was also able to come and spend time with us. He is older now, but he still makes me tear up whenever I leave him. I am just so blessed to have a wonderful family and still be able to see them and spend time with them.

I hope everyone had a wonderful Thanksgiving. Now onto Christmas! I have already begun decorating.

Christmas Tree

Santa's Wreath

Star Garland

Stockings and my basket of Christmas ornaments

I plan to add a few more touches. I am also in love with Christmas candles, so I think I am up to three in our living room. But they smell amazing!

26 days until Christmas! Have a great Tuesday!

It's Been One of Those

2011-11-19T07:27:00.000-08:00

I can relate to this guy this week pinned here.

So, when I saw this picture on Pinterest I thought, Oh yes, that is exactly how I feel. This week has been one of those. Not that I am complaining, I do appreciate a little hard work once in a while (only kidding). But the productivity cannot be matched to this past week. As I have blogged before, I am moving departments in a couple of weeks. This means tying up lose ends, training, and coping with the fact that I am leaving what I know to do something new. I welcome change, but I am one of those people that does not deal with it well until it's all said and done. One of the things I have learned about myself is that I am harder on me than anyone else. I am actually really excited that this coming week only consists of 2 work days. The next 5 days will enable me to recuperate, even more than this weekend.

I will finally see my brother in law and sister and her growing belly. She has lovingly come up with a nickname for my neice or nephew- June Bug. The baby is due in June, so this works. I am really thinking of getting her something, maybe even maternity clothes. Sorry for spoiling the surprise if you read this.

Today, I have watched two Hallmark movies, had coffee, and ate breakfast. Later, I hope to decorate for christmas!!! Can you believe that after next week, November is over? I thought October went by fast...Geesh.

Have a great Saturday!

Inner Beauty

2011-11-16T05:43:00.000-08:00

I know that I have included all kinds of posts on my blog lately. Some pertaining to life happenings, some about beauty products, clothes, and hair. Some even about my wonderful husband (those are his favorite!). But today I wanted to discuss something that has really been irking me in the media. I know that once I say what I am about to, you will read this and roll your eyes. But, it has to be said.

I am so fed up with the media covering so much of the Kim Kardashian and Kris Humphries divorce. I am going to go ahead and list the reasons why. Read if you may...

1. It gives people the wrong idea about marriage. So much of love/marriage is categorized by following your heart and not so much your head. Love is not only a warm emotion and wonderful butterflies, but it's a choice. It's a choice to commit your heart, not just follow it. It's a commitment to use your head and think about what you will say before you say it, or what you will do before you do it. It's a commitment of your body. It's committing your body to one person, and one person only for the rest of your lives. I am referring to marital love, of course. Giving your heart, mind, and body away outside of marriage leads to unnecessary heartbreak.

2. If you want to make your wedding a big to-do, then you probably shouldn't be getting married. The wedding is about 2 people who are committing themselves before God, their family, and friends. Weddings are not to be made debacles, T.V. Specials, or ways to attain some cold, hard cash. Not that every successful marriage begins with a modest wedding, but it sure doesn't hurt.

3. Being married multiple times is not the intention of marriage. I know that society says, "If it doesn't work out-divorce. If you're unhappy-divorce. If you're bored-divorce. If he/she cheats-divorce. If you just don't look good together-divorce. If she gains weight, or he loses his job-divorce". This isn't how it should be. Not that Kim Kardashian is the first to get divorced after such a short time. Uhem, do we remember Britney Spears and her 52 hour marriage? But, celebrities are also not the norm, they are not even close to being "normal". They are privileged, fake, touched up, highly overpaid, and have a ridiculous lifestyle they would like to "upkeep" despite the declining economy.

4. The Kardashians are not really famous for anything...So, girls who look up to them are looking up to women who sell themselves, not a product, an idea, or principles. They don't sell morality, or immortality. They are humans who are obsessed with themselves, making money, and doing anything and everything to stay famous.

Don't be fooled by a T.V. show. Their lives aren't real and more than ever I am realizing that true authentic living and true authentic loving begins with Jesus. There is so much fluff lacking substance, it's good to be able to hold onto something real. I am seriously debating getting rid of cable T.V altogether. There are betters ways to get information, like reading a book or an actual newspaper. There are better ways to connect like meeting someone for dinner or coffee. There are better ways to be entertained like taking a walk with your husband hand in hand. I can't let everyone else tell me what's popular, or acceptable, or beautiful. Beauty is found in me, in Christ, and in each other.

All I Want for Christmas is...

2011-11-15T05:54:00.000-08:00

So, my plans to decorate for Christmas has not yet happened. I have really been focusing on my Master's work and for whatever reason this class is a doozy (spelling?). Hopefully, this weekend I will pull everything out and make my homemade garland as well. I will post pics when its all said and done. This year I have a wish list that is not too far fetched, and I try not to go all out for Christmas because to me its not about what I get, but what I already have. But for the sake of this post, I will humor you all and myself. So here are the things I am really wanting this year for christmas.

1. An iPad would be awesome this year and on black Friday, I could see one of these babies being in the price range that isn't outrageous. Yes, I have a laptop and yes, I have an iPhone, but an iPad would be awesome.

You can buy one for me here. :)

2. The second thing I would like this year is from the Vintage Flea, Newnan, GA. It's a clutch/iPad cover that's made of burlap and bright fabric. I don't have a picture, but you get the idea.
3. The third thing would be clothes. I know clothes are not that important, but some staple items for work or play would be nice. I am lacking in the staple items like a crisp white button down shirt, some skinny khakis, cardigans, scarf pins, black pants, etc. My dream be clothes from J.Crew like this...

You can find this here.

4. The fourth thing is MacAlister Wedge Boot in Warm Rewood.


Pricey, but so adorable here.

5. The fifth and final thing would be some decor for the apartment. It needs some brightening up. Now, I am going to be practical and say one of my favorite places to go is T.J. Maxx. They have great name brand affordable things for the home.

I hope you like all of my wishes this year. What are yours?

Have a great Tuesday!

Sunday Times

2011-11-13T14:39:00.000-08:00

My two Christmas tree ornaments and 3 felt acorns for homemade garland. Also a business card for Southern Sky Art. Find them on Etsy here.

Today Logan taught at church, which was awesome. He hasn't taught in so long, but he had so many good things to say and truth about Jesus. Afterwards, some of the church members and us went to Fabiano's and had an amazing slice of the pie. The ladies then got together and walked the historic square located center of the city. It's a rare occurrence for the shops to be open on Sundays. Picture a small town in the South, and yeah, everything pretty much shuts down. So, we went through an amazing antique and decor store (bad idea). I basically wanted anything wrapped in burlap, or painted with chalkboard paint. The truth is though, I could make 80% of what they sold, if I just had the time. We then went to one of my favorite stores where I picked up 2 ornaments for the Christmas tree, and 3 for the garland I plan to make. The weather was great and it was just a nice way to spend a Sunday afternoon with the girls. I hope to get on my Christmas decorating soon! Have you started yet?

Only 42 days until Christmas!

Have a great Sunday evening!

Saturday Favorites

2011-11-12T08:03:00.000-08:00

I can't exactly say that I am notorious for being productive over the weekends. If I get in the mood I clean, or organize, or study...Or maybe not. So, in the spirit of being productive, I have perused through Pinterest and found this week's favorites. Yesterday, I reserved Friday for the Friday Freebies, however, today it's favorites day! After this I may actually do something...Or maybe not.


Fave southern treat! Pinned here.


Fave quote. Reminds me of Pinterest pinned here.


Fave re-purpose. Two doors make corner cabinet pinned here.

Fave scarf made of cotton and lace pinned here.

Fave party idea. Love burlap and lace! Pinned here.


Fave dream loft. Love all of the books pinned here.

Finally, in the spirit of Christmas, my favorite holiday dessert. I have a slight obsession with peppermint and chocolate.

Peppermint bark cheesecake pinned here.

I hope everyone enjoy this week's favorites.

Have a great Saturday!

Friday Freebies!

2011-11-11T04:45:00.000-08:00

I was pinning on Pinterest and came across some cute Christmas ideas. I am already in the Christmas spirit and it's nice to find things that can be useful during the holidays. I came across some free stationary that Better Homes and Gardens is giving away. Below you will see what I picked out for my Christmas stationary. These are printable, so instead of purchasing stationary, you can print this off of your color printer.


You can find this here.

These can also be used as decoration for framed photos, or scrapbooks, or just to send special ones good ole fashioned letters for the holiday season. There are some that you can place your photos on and give as gifts or use as Christmas cards. Christmas card season is almost here. There are some other great ideas for DIY crafts, stencils for Christmas, and more! Check it out! If you have come across any others, leave a comment below.

Don't forget to grab my button as well! If you aren't following my blog, you can follow or subscribe my email!

Have a great Friday!

Show Me the Money

2011-11-10T05:01:00.000-08:00

You may not have known that I have been an academic advisor for almost two years at Point University. One of my passions is education, particularly higher education. I knew in high school that I was meant for college. No, college was not always an easy ride for me, but for the most part enjoyable. I am one of those weirdos that actually likes school. A little too much maybe. The truth is I love to learn and be a part of those who are pursuing their dreams by learning new trades or skills. When I started going to Point, then Atlanta Christian College, I knew this place would always hold near and dear to my heart.

Not too long ago I was offered a position to be a financial aid specialist. I knew it was going to be something new and challenging, so I accepted. Being an academic advisor you are a part of the student's lives. You listen to their needs and desires, and you encourage them to go for their dreams. You help them with schedules and classes, and really an advisor gets them to their cap and gown. It has been a privilege to work so closely with students. My major being counseling, it definitely gave me the experience that I may not have gotten without attending Point.

So, on Monday I begin my new venture in financial aid. I will mainly be dealing with aid and accounts- Bring on the moolah! I am excited and nervous, but interested in how God plays all of this out. I didn't really anticipate this becoming a part of my career, but yet another thing to be thankful for!

45 days until Christmas!

Thanksgivin'

2011-11-09T06:28:00.000-08:00

Since I am from the south, we down here call Thanksgiving- Thanksgivin'.

This year I have so much to be thankful for and although it sounds a little cheesy, I am excited about this time. First of all, my sister is pregnant and we are all thankful for the life that has been brought to her. I am also thankful because my brother in law will be in the states and with family for the first time in 2 years. This is honestly a blessing. People don't realize that for every one holiday a Marine misses there are 3 more he/she will probably miss or have missed.

I am thankful for my husband and the ways that he loves me. He has my heart and I am so thankful for when and how he came into my life. Every year of marriage will only get better from here! I know it.

I am thankful for the people who have supported me in my life, my work, my faith, and my dreams for the future. I am thankful that I only have a few more months of graduate school. I am thankful for new opportunities to succeed and fail.

I am thankful for my Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. He has brought me through some tough times and beautiful times. He continually blesses me, teaches me, and loves me. What are you thankful for?

46 days until Christmas!

Update Two

2011-11-08T07:45:00.000-08:00

1. ~~Organize my closet and bathroom.~~

2. ~~Complete the second Twilight book (I know. I am lame and far behind).~~

3. ~~Make one craft on my own and with my own flare!~~

4. Have a group of people over that I know so well, and don't know so well to hang out!

5. Make a chocolate pumpkin cheesecake.

6. Have all of my family together again (I hope!)

7. ~~Only eat fast food once a week.~~ Replacing this with trying two new recipes from Pinterest. :)

8. ~~Give clothes away to a local shelter or co-op.~~

9. Decorate for Christmas!

10. ~~Look at purchasing a new car.~~

11. ~~Begin a plan for paying off student loan debt.~~

12. Surprise my neighbor with flowers!

The marked out ones are the goals I have completed! How many have you done?

Have a great Tuesday!

Slip On Some Cute

2011-11-07T13:28:00.000-08:00

iPhone slip cover- Elisabeth Ashlie Jewelry

So, I recently found this blog here that has all kinds of hair tutorials and things like that. Kate and her sister also have a jewelry and craft shop on Etsy. I saw a slip cover that was so adorable, so I knew I had to get one for my iPhone. What you see above is the finished product. For some reason a bulky cover or skin just didn't sound too appealing so I went for the slip cover. If you are interested in purchasing one for your iPhone, just go here. They have all kinds of styles, colors, and custom orders too! Their jewelry line is amazing and very pretty. I hope you will stop by and take a look just in time for Christmas!

Have a great Monday!

Saturday Happenings and Such

2011-11-06T11:10:00.000-08:00

This is how I lift. Pinned here.

Yesterday my family and I went to see Logan lift an incredible amount of weight at his first power lifting meet since he was 16 years old. I have to say not only was I impressed, but proud. I took several videos, but want to edit them before I put them up for the public to see. The day was long and started early. We were up around 7 a.m. had some breakfast and coffee (it's a must) and headed down to the venue. We watched some of the lighter weight class lifts and waited for Logan to have his turn. He lifted several times and we were cheering him on (loudly). I felt like one of those moms at a football game all up in the way and taking pictures, but it had to be done :). After the meet was over we all went to dinner and talked about the day, and our lives, and even hopes for the future. I have to say it was a beautiful day, long, but beautiful!

Today we are here seeing his trainer lift and I have to say the weekend has been a breath of fresh air. We are up in the north Georgia mountains and I can see every color of leaf imaginable. The air is crisp and clean. There is a Panera (awesome!) right by our venue. Life is good ♥.

Friday Favorites

2011-11-04T08:59:00.000-07:00

So this week's Friday Favorites are dedicated to the weekend. I have my fave looks, eats, and things to do!


Fave weekend look pinned here.


Fave DIY clutch pinned here.


Fave weekend soup recipe pinned here.


Fave way to watch a movie outdoors pinned here. All you need is a bonfire.

Weekend hair pinned here.

Weekend look pinned here. Go Falcons!


What I do on my weekend pinned here.

I hope you all enjoy your weekend! Logan and I are heading up to Dalton, GA tonight for his weight lifting competition. Good luck honey!

Have a great Friday!

DIY Cork Mouse Pad

2011-11-03T12:01:00.000-07:00

So this week I attempted at my very first craft. I wanted to find something simple, cost effective, and of course cute. So I stumbled across this blog that you can find here. There are directions and ideas. Mine wasn't as neat as hers, however, I thought I did pretty well. I really like the fun shape and the fabric was so cheap, which I found at Hobby Lobby. I plan to make some more, probably one for my office as well. All you need is:

Cork board tiles
Fabric of your choice
Heat n Bond Ultra (found at Wal-Mart or Hobby Lobby)
Iron
Scissors or exacto knife

You can find the directions with pictures at the blog above. The same format could be used for coasters as well. I hope you enjoy this easy and fun craft and share it with others. I plan to make a few for gifts!

Have a great Thursday!

Due Date

2011-11-02T09:42:00.000-07:00

So, it being Wednesday, I thought today would be the perfect day to share something exciting!

I am going to be an aunt! Yes, me!

My sister and brother in law will be due on June 1, 2012, but if we are lucky the little squirt can wait til June 5, my birthday! I am so excited for my sister and brother in law. Everyone was so thrilled to find out, including me, and my parents.

I secretly hope its a boy, although it's not such a secret now that I posted it. The names they have chosen are: Boy- Hunter Lee, Girl- Presley Grace. I am so blessed to be able to enjoy this time with them!

Have a great Wednesday!

Web Address Change

2011-11-01T13:17:00.000-07:00

This may be a ~~little~~ late, but my address has changed from

http://ambiguousserenity.blogspot.com to

www.grinandbarrettblog.com!

So, I am now legit. Pass it on! I have a new button on my blog as well that you can grab to share with your friends!

Thanks for reading, or not reading and starting to read now!

Have a great Tuesday!

Happy Movember!

2011-11-01T08:00:00.000-07:00

It is officially ~~November~~ Movember, which means it's time to put down the razors and start raising awareness for the cancers that affect men. I have always loved No Shave November, or Movember, because it's a fun and crazy way to make others aware of the cancers that are affecting men of today. Companies such as, Toms Shoes are even jumping on the band wagon, but let's not forget what this is all about. Cancer is a serious disease and takes thousands of lives every year. It is no wonder that we have come to such measures to make men aware that they need to go and get annual check ups for cancers like prostate and others. You can go to the official Movember website here.

Happy ~~Shaving~~ Hair Growth! Happy Movember to everyone! 54 days until Christmas!

Happy Hallochristmas?

2011-10-31T11:25:00.000-07:00

I really like these "Keep Calm" quotes. Mainly because I am not calm. I am rather uptight. Just comes with the territory I guess...Now, that it's Halloween all of the spooky and batty are out to play. I think I have already seen one clown today (creepiest of all) and a couple of witches around town. However, now that it is Halloween, the countdown to Christmas has officially begun! It is now 55 days until Christmas. Crazy I know! The Christmas season outweighs Thanksgiving, not that I am not thankful, but Christmas freakin rocks! I cannot deny that.

The funniest thing is going into stores. I have gone to Wal-Mart, Target, and Hobby Lobby only to find aisles upon aisles of Halloween/Christmas decor. Isn't that an oxymoron? The scariest time on earth with the happiest time on earth? It just cannot be! Now, this is America so commercialism does have a part to play. It's about money, right? Well for me, not so much... I love the celebration of Jesus' birth, the togetherness, the sacredness, the precious times with family and friends, and a chance to give (more than normal). I don't think Halloween gives me quite the warm and fuzzies. I am also wondering is it too early to decorate for Christmas? Probably so...I will have to hold out a little longer.

I have some really great crafts to try out including, handmade gifts, wreaths and ornaments. I could do that for Thanksgiving, but again, it's just not the same. So, Happy Hallochristmas! It is soon to be here!

Yippee!

The Family Card

2011-10-30T06:34:00.000-07:00

I had to steal this picture from Pinterest posted by Corinne Dickey. This picture captures the beauty of family. Let's be honest, who doesn't love a big fat baby dressed up as a life saver or sailor? Yeah, I can't think of anyone either.

While there are no babies in the near, near future. I thought I should blog about the cuteness that is baby. No family in the cards yet, but one day I will dress my little girl up in cute little costumes and take pictures to embarrass her someday.

I hope everyone has a wonderful Sunday!

Date Night

2011-10-29T10:57:00.000-07:00

So my blog yesterday must have really paid off, but it led to a makeshift date night. My husband works all weekend and his weekend is two days during my work week which means we have to be creative. We had no idea where to go to dinner, so we drove around for what seemed like...a long time. We ended up at Carabbas. It was delicious. I cannot even tell you how long I have wanted Italian.

I realized that it was one of the best nights. I am so thankful and it is in those unexpected drives, or a look, or an Americanized Italian meal that makes me so thankful for my husband and my life.

I think that if couples could find the time to spend with each other, they would like each other a lot more. Even in our young marriage I have realized that time spent together is precious.

I hope everyone has a great Saturday! If you are married take the time to take a drive, look at your husband/wife, and enjoy time together ♥.

Friday Favorites: Special Edition

2011-10-28T09:04:00.000-07:00

Today's Friday Favorites is dedicated to my wonderful husband. I know this is only my second week doing so, but I thought I would be a little more sentimental. It does happen a little too often. So to begin, here's a little rundown of our love ♥ story.

♥ Where We Met: Barnes and Noble

♥ When We Met: March 14, 2010

♥ When We Fell in Love: March 14, 2010

♥ First Kiss: March 19, 2010

♥ First Date: March 19, 2010

♥ When He Proposed: April 15, 2010

♥ When We Were Married: July 10, 2010

So, today I wanted to dedicate my Friday Favorites to Us and Our Life together.


All Time Fave Photo of Us


Fave Memory: Our First Christmas together in that horrific loft apartment.


Fave Vacation: Panama City Beach 2011

My Favorite things to do with my husband are: talking about nothing, watching movies, going to church, and of course going out on dates!

I am so blessed to be with my husband and I am so happy that God put us together ♥. I am definitely feeling a little sappy today. And I really like hearts today too!

Have a great Friday!

Hair Tutorials

2011-10-27T10:47:00.000-07:00

If you are looking for some awesome hair tutorials (sorry ladies only, maybe next time guys), then you need to go to this blog. It is amazing and she has so much knowledge on hair and beauty products. I use her ideas all of the time, and luckily we have similar tastes. I hope you enjoy!

Just go to the blog and there is a page at the top, "Hair Tutorials". Kate has all kinds of styles and tricks, and if you are like me and clueless about products, she gives some great advice. The fall season has come and that means drier locks for most of us. Now that I am trying a straighter style (cute little bob cut), I have to really pay attention to hydration both for my skin and hair.

There's something else that I have discovered called the "Birchbox". I may be totally and completely behind, but $10 a month to try high end cosmetics? Yes, please. The Birchbox ships to your house monthly, and depending on your beauty profile, has awesome little goodies in there for you to try (and hopefully love). You earn points towards full size items and discounts. So every purchase, completed survey, and upgrade you get, there are more points to redeem. Sounds good to me! So click here for more Birchbox info. Oh and bonus, the samples are really cute and fun! They also have a Facebook page below:

Birchbox on Facebook
Have a great Thursday!

Fall Must's

2011-10-26T11:18:00.000-07:00


I need to eat here!

Apple Picking.

Make my own Caramel Apple Spice.

These are just three of the Fall things I want to do! We are also taking a trip up north to Dalton for Logan's power lifting competition, so we will be able to enjoy some cooler weather for a weekend! That I am really looking forward to. I am also looking forward to seeing him lift so much weight! I haven't seen anyone lift 500 lbs. before so that will be exciting!

Update

2011-10-24T14:06:00.000-07:00

~~1. Organize my closet and bathroom.~~

~~2. Complete the second Twilight book (I know. I am lame and far behind).~~

3. Make one craft on my own and with my own flare!

4. Have a group of people over that I know so well, and don't know so well to hang out!

5. Make a chocolate pumpkin cheesecake.

6. Have all of my family together again (I hope!)

7. Only eat fast food once a week. (Starting this one over :( ).

~~8. Give clothes away to a local shelter or co-op.~~

9. Decorate for Christmas!

10. Look at purchasing a new car.

11. Begin a plan for paying off student loan debt.

12. Surprise my neighbor with flowers!

The marked out ones are the goals I have completed! How many have you done?

Friday Favorites

2011-10-21T11:33:00.000-07:00

So I have seen so many people blogging their favorites on Fridays. Since I love Fridays so much I thought I would join!

So here are my top 10 for Friday:

Favorite Fall look

Favorite day to night look

Favorite fall wreath

Favorite half up do

Favorite earrings

Favorite living space

Favorite organized space

Favorite product

Favorite photo: All for my little Yorkie Bogie


Favorite Fall soup: Smoky Minestrone

That's it for today. Everyone enjoy your Friday and weekend! I have a fall farm wedding tomorrow night, I am already stoked. For ideas on fall wedding and event wear click here. I was the inspiration for this blog!

2011-10-18T14:51:00.000-07:00

So, I read this blog, and while I am usually against these sorts of things, I think I will go ahead and try it. There is approximately 11 weeks remaining in 2011. So before the start of 2012 I will do 12 things that I want to do, or HAVE to get done....Here is my list and I encourage everyone to take advantage of this last bit of 2011 and do something!

1. Organize my closet and bathroom.
2. Complete the second Twilight book (I know. I am lame and far behind).
3. Make one craft on my own and with my own flare!
4. Have a group of people over that I know so well, and don't know so well to hang out!
5. Make a chocolate pumpkin cheesecake.
6. Have all of my family together again (I hope!)
7. Only eat fast food once a week.
8. Give clothes away to a local shelter or co-op.
9. Decorate for Christmas!
10. Look at purchasing a new car.
11. Begin a plan for paying off student loan debt.
12. Surprise my neighbor with flowers!

I hope you do this too! Get started!

DIY Calendar

2011-10-08T08:30:00.000-07:00

So, I had this idea yesterday to create my own calendar for our office nook. I thought simply, I could put some scrap book paper in a frame, create a calendar template, and simply fill in with a dry erase marker. I go to the craft store, fill my cart, then unfill* my cart. For some reason my creative juices left me. Then I go home to Pinterest and find this picture. Someone had already jacked my idea! Or great minds think alike. My calendar will be slightly different, but at least I know it wasn't a completely idiotic idea.

*Disclaimer: I know that unfill is not a word, however, this is my blog and I will use whatever words I choose.

Let's Get Creative

2011-10-05T13:18:00.001-07:00

Okay, so now I have a two new obsessions that I can add to my already long list. Currently, they are:

1. Facebook (Given)

2. My iPhone

3. Blogging (Although I don't get to do it that much)

4. Candles

5. Pumpkin Spice Lattes

6. Writing

7. Human Services field (anything!)

So now, I have two more:

1. Pinterest (uh oh, BIG mistake)

2. Etsy (even bigger mistake on my wallet)

What's great about these two new obsessions is that they really get my creative juices flowing. Now, I am not necessarily a visionary. That comes with the territory of being a realist. I am so interested in so many things. I love clothes, shopping, decorating, accessories, hair, beauty, and I can even create the occasional craft. I really would like to be able to create beautiful things. Not necessarily to generate a profit, but to have a cause. I am not a painter, but I would like to be. Graduate school has taken away so much of my fervor to learn anything remotely related to anything else but academics. However, I see this a new opportunity to buy local, support local causes, and make a difference. TOMS and other companies do this and it inspires me so much! Hopefully, the Lord can lead me, but in the meantime I can use my lack of experience to beatify my apartment, and drive my husband crazy! Luckily, I can cook and bake. I do have that going for me!

More to come...

On Hold

2011-09-04T09:28:00.001-07:00

Well, we have been doing the house hunting thing for while. It has definitely been a learning experience and not as easy as we had anticipated. The market is constantly changing, and so much can happen. We were definitely very close to getting a house, but it feel through. The process ended up being complicated and I am not exactly sure that everyone was doing their part. We were discouraged and disappointed, but the truth is, we are not 100% sure where we will be settling. When I think of house buying, my mind automatically thinks one thing- Family. Kids! Kids are a big deal when thinking of buying a house. The schools need to be great, the neighborhood safe, and there should be no question that where we move, we plan on staying quite a while. I grew up in the same house for 12 years. That's how I picture our house. A place that is constant, warm, and gives the ability to grow.

One thing that I know for certain is that no matter where we live, we will be there for a reason. Choosing to live somewhere is about investing in that community. It's about being able to live somewhere while pouring out into those around you.

We may not live in a house very soon, but when we do, it will definitely be where my heart is.

House

2011-08-05T13:03:00.001-07:00

Being a newlywed couple, I find that Logan and I are still trying to figure each other out. If you and your significant other are looking into a fun date, try househunting. Nothing is sweeter than seeing your husband pick the most hideous houses (just kidding, not really). The truth is, we both have great taste. I like modern, non-cluttered, flat yarded, ranch style houses. Logan would qualify to be the same, although he can be a bit more out there than me.

Rule 1: I am scared of color. Most people can pull it off very well, I am afraid I cannot. I had a purple bedroom once, but even then it was only the slightest hint of lavender. Everything goes with neutrals, plus it's all I wear. I am a neutral girl, but I like to add color in home accessories. Rule 2: I do not like clutter. Not that most people do, but sometimes I am afraid of overaccessorizing. Trust me, it is possible. Rule 3: If the kitchen is not hot...then get out of the kitchen? KITCHENS are a big deal to me. First of all, everyone hangs out there when they come over. Because there's food, and because its generally center of the house, it just seems necessary to have an open kitchen. And, finally, Rule 4: I don't do ugly. I like the curb appeal of a house and the potential in a great lot. I eventually want to plant flowers, herbs, vegetables, and fruits, so a pretty lot is important!

I think you get the picture.

The thing is, my needs and wants are pretty basic. Being a first time home buyer, I am not looking to hit the lottery or anything. We have been looking at some great houses, and some not so great ones. All the same, it has been a learning experiencce. I really am tired of the renter's life, and find that settling into a home is comforting. I can finally start nesting- hanging pictures, adding little personal touches, and finally being able to have a yard to plant pretty things ( not to mention the hubs mowing the lawn) . We will finally be able to grill out, meet neighbors, have guests over, and decorate for Fall and Christmas (I really look forward to that!).

We cannot wait to buy our first house! Updates to come...

Porch doll

2011-07-23T13:23:00.001-07:00

Backyard chair

2011-07-23T13:22:00.001-07:00

The trouble with life is...

2011-07-21T11:15:00.001-07:00

I wish there were more hours in a day, or perhaps less hours so that we didn't feel so pressured to get so much done. If you think longterm about life, what is most important? Family, friends, love, hope, faith.

If you answered yes to any of these, you are correct. The older I get the less other stuff matters. Money, power, fame, all of these things don't seem too appealing. I am not sure they make any easier. Life is complicated, and way harder than when your a child.

I wonder why no one talks about it. It's common for parents to tell, "Life gets harder, enjoy it now" and you actually believe them. Because, hello? I didn't.

I was in a Japanese restaurant one night with my family and there was a Japanese man walking around playing the accordian. To this day, I am not sure what he was doing with the accordian, but he was going around and singing Happy Birthday to everyone. Why? I have no idea.

I think this is what life is about. It's funny, it doesn't really make sense, it's surprising, and when you look back it's a distant memory and all the emotion you felt, all the pain, it fades away.

The touble with life is...It does get harder, more complicated, and sweeter.

Mysteries Unsolved

2011-07-20T07:54:00.001-07:00

There are a few mysteries in my life that are not yet solved. I think that life is full of mystery, of the unknown, and the uncertain. Of the mysteries in my life, Jesus remains at the top of it all. I have been in church my whole life, went to a Christian college, and now am learning more about Him in graduate school. To me, knowledge is not always power. Knowing things is much different from experiencing them. As a Christian, I have knowledge, I can't say that I have experienced the true richness that this Jesus life gives.

I have remained guarded for many years. I have been hurt in my life, by people that I loved the most. Not that I am special, we can all relate. I can understand why anyone would walk away from a life of faith, but thankfully, I have not. I have kept going, sweat on my brow, my heart utterly broken. From the times I have been hurt, I have learned that I want to work that much harder not to do the same to others. The difficulty is being able to open up and accept this life. This life that calls you to love until it hurts, and to give without expecting any return. It is difficult for me. I want the safe, comfortable life. I have experienced so much change that last year, I want to somehow enter into a cocoon and stay there until I am ready to come out.

This life is messy. I see it as being the "dirty gospel" because it is. Everything needs dirt to grow. So at this time, I am slowly but surely letting go of myself, and looking to give to others. The only mystery is how do I get started? It shouldn't be complicated. Ordinary life can be extraordinary when you live it with Jesus. It is not comfortable, and not always safe. I can't understand how it works, I don't understand fully Jesus' love for all people. It is just one of those mysteries for me.

More to come...

Our first vacation

2011-07-13T13:39:00.001-07:00

Our first vacation has been wonderful. We are so blessed to be able to go to the beach to celebrate our one year anniversary. Luckily, the weather has been cooperative, and we have had plenty of time to soak up sun, surf, and plenty of relaxation. We have had some great seafood, and tonight will be Logan and my last night here, so we are going to take pictures at sunset on the beach! That's my favorite thing to do!

We hope to make plenty of memories, and document them to add to our photo album! Oh, and one lovely piece of info. that most people don't know. We have yet to print our wedding photos, so we plan to do that when we get home. I used to joke that it would be a year before we would ever print them, and its passed that!

I also cannot wait to get home and finally organize my life. Graduate school has been taking its toll, and I am still learning and adjusting to adulthood. There is so much to remember and so much to do. I am so blessed to have a husband who loves and supports me.

For those of you who may not be married yet, let me offer some transparent advice...Marriage takes work, and no one's is perfect. What I have learned this past year is to trust, to love unconditionally, and to accept the fact that I can't and will not change my partner. If you can accept who you partner is, and stop trying to change them, then your marriage will grow and flourish as will your love for each other.

I am looking to many more years and vacations to come!

A year ago today

2011-07-02T21:20:00.001-07:00

A year ago today my sister got married. It is so surreal to think that it has been a year since she was married and 8 days from being married a year as well. It just doesn't even seem real.

I don't know if I would have believed anyone if they said even a two years ago I would be married, my sister would be married, and I would be living in Newnan. It just doesn't make any sense. I would have hoped that things would make more sense, but life is much better not making much sense. It causes me to grow, to trust, to let go.

For most people I am sure much of their life makes sense. For me, it never really has. I have always lived a life that didn't make much sense, or didn't look like it would be normal. I have never quite fit in. So, to me, this all makes more sense.

I hope that others can accept and embrace a life that doesn't make sense.

We are leaving for vacation in a couple of weeks and celebrating our first of many years! I am so excited to get away and enjoy each other and celebrate the best first year of our life.

Scary, Scary

2011-06-27T10:17:00.001-07:00

There is so much talk about the cost of tuition for many graduate programs here in the United States. For one, let's say I finish this master's program and then all of the sudden, I don't have the job to pay the monumental loans back? I know this may sound pessimistic, or negative, or just plain faithless, but I truly am concerned. With the cost of everything else rising, stability is not very strong here these days. Now, this isn't really a big and bad problem, because I know around the world people are not even given the opprtunity to be educated, on the other hand, other countries give it away free- like candy. Why is it that we look at education as a free ride, an insurmountable obstacle, or a money junky? I just don't get it.

I think that education is very important...Is it for everyone? Maybe not, but the opportunity shoud be. It seems unjust, and it is sad to me. I have taken out loans for college, no guarantee that I will be able to pay it back, while others are unable to afford a school in their town.

I hope that as time goes by we are able to somehow change the face of education.

More ideas to come.

It's the weekend

2011-06-24T14:08:00.001-07:00

Going to the lake house at Lake Sinclair to be with family. So excited! Pictures to come.

This is the shortest post ever! Just so glad it's the weekend. Ah. Relax. Gone fishin'.

Cheapy, Cheapy

2011-06-21T18:16:00.001-07:00

So my new favorite thing is couponing.

We have a 'secret' club where we can share coupons, sales, even compete on who spent less at the grocery store. Now, I am no expert, but it is exciting to see yourself saving money. Each and every coupon you clip is a window to something greater, smarter, and cheaper. I am not in any way extreme about this at all. If anything, I probably save the least amount of money. I just haven't found my groove yet. Of course, my husband was completely supportive of this. 'Anything to save money, right?' he would say.

With all of this house hunting business, we can take all we can get. Now, I do have some rules if in some crazy way I should become addictive. It's about giving it away. I will definitely not be a 'food hoarder'. I do not understand why these people buy so much in bulk just to spend the extra time rotating the stock so that none of it goes bad and is a complete waste. I just don't see the point. I can buy myself some great savings, but 100 tubes of toothpaste- uh pass. I can give it to those who cannot afford a tube of toothpaste whatsoever, let alone 100.

I guess it depends on the person and what perspective they come from. I am not doing to save money for trips, or to pat myself on the back. Simply to utilize the resources and make good stewardship of my money. Maybe the occasional pair of shoes.

First Post

2011-06-21T17:57:00.001-07:00

I don't what my fascination with these sites is about, but they are helpful.

Not only do they teach you about computer skills, but they also help get your name out there. Plus, no one else I know has one that I know of.

So all of this to say that I really hope this doesn't become another stagnant blog. If so, it still looks cool.

On the hunt...

2011-06-20T12:44:00.000-07:00

Just a smidgen of an update. Logan and I are house hunting. What the hunt it is...

No one really tells you all of the complications and complex processes there are to looking and buying a house. So far I have learned the words escrow, due diligence, financial contingency, and the list goes on and on. Normally, I would picture myself having a lump sum of money, picking a house, handing the nice man or lady some money, and telling them to get their rears off my newly purchased property. But ah ha! Not so much.

What I have learned is that people will sell you anything, even themselves to score some cash. The first real estate agent was nice, but unprofessional. Mostly, she talked about her personal life. That was a no go. The second real estate agent was simply not forthcoming at all with information about himself, or the houses we checked out.

So I prayed. I have prayed continuously about this process, but I was needing more. I needed an agent who wasn't a scam artist, wasn't unprofessional, and wasn't going to just stare at you like he was waiting on you to sell yourself the house. We are waiting patiently, and we know in the end we will get a good deal and a great house! I am definitely, once again, learning the importance of patience. I am also learning about the importance of learning and using common sense. If it doesn't sound right, or look right, it probably isn't right. Just a few tips!

Prayers from others are accepted as well! :)

Having Fun

2011-05-20T09:13:00.000-07:00

Logan and I have always had so much fun together. I think having fun together is an essential part of being married. If you can't enjoy being with your husband and wife, then why be married? The best part of being married to your best friend is that no matter what they are always your friend first. Of course, we are attracted to each other, we love each other, we support and believe in one another, but we also are best friends. We can laugh, talk, tease, and just be with each other. No matter what it is we are doing, we can always find the humor in it. One thing that I think is missing in a lot of marriages today is the ability to laugh and have fun. We went to dinner with my parents this week and it was so refreshing to see my parents giggling and laughing the same way Logan and me do. We just talked and told each other about the quirky things we do, and the mishaps that can always bring us back down to earth.

Marriage is not about ruling each other, its about taking on the world together. Partnership involves a lot of give and take, but it also requires each to be humble and be willing to serve. Being married these 10 months has really shown me the true meaning of humility. I am not perfect by any means, so what inside my head convinces me I am? Pride. Pride is toxic and it can be like a poison. It can tear people apart and make you believe that you have no issues. The truth is pride is the fear of criticism. Pride doesn't enable you to see the good in your husband or wife, it only can see the mistakes. One thing that I am working on is saying, "I was wrong", first. If I can do that, then we can get somewhere.

Bottom line, have fun, encourage each other, and don't think that you have it all together, because no one does.

Have fun! See where it can take you.

A Year

2011-05-04T13:20:00.000-07:00

It has been a year since Logan and I were engaged. A year...It seems like yesterday. Seriously. I remember the overwhelming feeling of happiness and knowing that my life was going to change instantly. We got engaged on April 15th, exactly one month to the day of our first date. I know, I know, it's crazy! That day, I remember Logan asking so many times if he were to ask me to marry him would I say yes. I assured him every time that I would definitely say yes. Somehow, someway we just knew that we were meant to be together. Something about us just fit. Everything that we shared, all of our dreams, our hopes, they just lined up together perfectly. This has to be what destiny feels like.

We went to Stone Mountain and he asked if there were any good spots to go to. He hadn't been in years and we lived right down the street from the park. So went and I told him that the park was beautiful at night right in front of the mountain. We walked around and finally made it to the spot where he got down on one knee. I thought he was kidding. All I could say was, "Oh my God, Oh my God, Oh my God". He asked me and I said, "Yes"! We cried, hugged, and relished in the thought that were to be man and wife. I went home and told my parents, and they were not the least bit surprised. Was the whole process overwhelming? Oh yes, but completely worth it. Every day that goes by I am comforted and amazed that I can love someone more and more everyday. A love that no one knows and no one else has experienced. We are so excited for our first wedding anniversary! Cannot wait!

Together

2011-05-03T11:42:00.000-07:00

Our community in Spalding county experienced great devastation after last week's storms and tornadoes. Winds, rain, hail, and tornadoes wiped out communities, homes, and devastated families and individuals. Our church saw the destruction firsthand May 1st when we went to help clear debris and hand out food and water to those affected. Logan and I received an email on Saturday night letting us know about the opportunity to put forth effort to make a change and help restore this weather stricken area. Below are some pictures and stories of the damage and the determination to clean up and start fresh. We encountered one young woman who took cover with her sister and mother in a ditch in their backyard. We then heard a story of a woman who clutched the door knob of her bathroom while her feet were in midair for nearly 3 minutes, only finger tips away from being taken up by the tornado. These stories and their survival helped me to see how blessed I was to not have to experience this horror, but also blessed because I was there to have the chance to serve them. Jesus was there amidst the storm. He calmed the storm. He will be there to clean up the mess and bring restoration to these people.

Barrett All: Bare it All

2011-03-19T20:55:00.000-07:00

Ever since I have been married I have trying to find a cute play on words with Logan and my last name.

1. Grin and Barrett (Grin and Bear It)
2. Barrett All (Bare it All)
3. I can't think of anymore (Suggestions please...)

It has been a year now since Logan and I met each other that fateful afternoon in Barnes and Noble. I remember feeling so excited and giddy. I wanted to shout it to everyone that I had done it. I had met the man I was going to marry. I can't tell you all that was running through my mind, but one thought stands out for me. The thought that I had met him so unexpectedly. Was I ready? Absolutely. Was I prepared? Absolutely not. I had made somewhat of a secret vow as a little girl. I prayed for the man who was going to marry me as often and as purely as I could. Even while I was in relationships, something inside me still told me to pray. I had not found him yet. He was not yet mine.

When I met Logan I stopped praying for him and began to pray with him. From the moment we became an "us" we prayed for our future and my faith had really risen within me. We faced some tough times, but yet still deep down I knew that God would orchestrate it all as He had already done. Lately, I have been feeling so overwhelmed. I had no idea the roller coaster of emotions that would ensue once saying "I do". I would say, its similar to culture shock. Your whole life changes. Your entire rhythm is shifted. I can literally feel myself becoming an adult. My whole thought process changes and what I once thought was important, no longer is. Life is not all about having fun (although its a new and better fun when you're married). Life is not all about having the next best accessory, or having the most impressive...anything. Life isn't all about yourself anymore, its about others and family.

I remember when I came home from work one day completely exhausted. Normally, I would go to my parents and vent all about my day and why it was so crappy. When I came home this day, however, they were nowhere to be found. I went into my own bedroom, laid on my own bed, and looked at the man next to me. He was now my family. He was my sounding board when things got hard or messy. He was my new rhythm. Everything had changed. It was overwhelming. This past year has definitely been life changing. I feel that I have grown so much. I have learned so many things about love, patience, understanding, responsibility, loyalty, and faith. I have learned about the true meaning of family and who my true friends are.

Logan has been the stepping stone for my life. Everything has only gotten better since knowing him and being his wife. This marriage thing might just work out after all (just kidding Logan). I know that it will. There is so much left to be learned and so much more loving to do!

I cannot wait until its our year wedding anniversary! It will definitely be one of the sweetest times in life.

Transition

2011-03-17T15:03:00.000-07:00

So, I have not written in sometime and for a moment I have my writing juices flowing, so I might as well take advantage.

I walked into the cafeteria today during dinner to spend some time in the office in that building. I looked up at the screen which displays numerous ads and current happenings at the college. One popped up that happened to catch my eye. It was the ad about the on site counselor we have at the college. They are typically a graduate intern who needs to beef up their internship experience. So, generally they take a position here to counsel students for free.

One question that was placed on the ad was, "Are you having trouble transitioning?" Funny word picture. I literally shouted in my head, "Yes!" and then my heart seemed to jump up and down. Trouble transitioning? People have no idea. The thought of someone who is willing to listen to my rant is not only comical, but I imagine them having their eyes wide open, their hair awry, and looking at me with a blank, sweaty faced stare. The more I tell people about how much my life as changed, the more they want to hug me.

I took a stress test recently (a written kind), and you are supposed to circle the items that have happened in the twelve months, and next to them is a number value. The numbers range from 12 to 50 or so. So I took the test. I circled, and I circled, and I circled some more. Before I knew it, I nearly circled every item. Funny? Yes. Serious? Yes. My number after all items were added up? 558. The highest number they list in the answer key is 300. So, I have an 80% chance of suffering from a major medical illness. Now, while that doesn't sound so funny, I literally laughed til I cried. I thought, "So I am not crazy, I just am stressed to the point where I could drop dead right now". Neat.

Once I told everyone in the office my stress number, what do you think happened? Yes, more hugging.

Am I having trouble transitioning? Absolutely. But who wouldn't when nearly everything in their life has changed? Don't worry, I re-took the test counting only events that happened the past 6 months and my number was 95. So we are definitely improving there.

The truth is nearly everything in my life has changed including my relationship with Christ. I would have to say that has been really affecting me lately. I have times where I literally question myself and ask, "Do I really believe?" And if so, why is all of this Jesus stuff so difficult to wrap my head around? I mean I used to read the Bible and feel good about reading it. Mainly because I was gaining knowledge, and I love to learn. Now, I read it and nearly want to pass out. All of these things he did and said, they are just so hard to fathom. Not to mention the Old Testament Bible stories. You would think having a Biblical Studies minor would enable me to better understand, but the whirlwind of life has caused me to have a lot of questions. In terms of doing ministry, I am terrified. Didn't turn out too well last time. I think too I question a lot of "Why me?", and "How me?", and "I am sorry, what?"

Oh, more to come. No answers now.

Missional?

2011-02-08T10:23:00.000-08:00

I saw this video at our Village gathering. This really helps to depict the church and how its been, and how it is meant to be for me.

It definitely opened my eyes to the institutionalized American church. Everyone's view of church is different, but this is how I have been wanting to see it done. Now I have a name for what was in my head...the Missional church, simply.

More to come.

With our Hands

2011-01-31T08:12:00.000-08:00

This weekend my husband experienced something we never thought we would. The church we attend is very much involved with the community. One way they impact those who are needy is to feed them. Every week they take food to over 150 families per week. That means that pounds and pounds of food is collected and then distributed straight to their door. There are various church members who do this regularly and some when they are able. They give them food which consists of staple items such as peanut butter, bread, rice, noodles, spaghetti sauce, soups, the usual. One portion of the food pyramid that is nearly neglected are fruits and vegetables. Because they tend to spoil faster and cost more they are not the usual items in the food boxes that many cooperative ministries distribute, same with milk and other perishables.

There is much farmland around the area we live. One thing I like about living here is just that. Saturday morning we pulled up to 180 Degree Farm, a farm that grows organic produce as well as organic eggs and milk. I was not quite sure what to expect, but I knew I was ready to get down and dirty. So we got to work transforming an essentially empty field to rows and rows of compost prepared for planting root crops. It was hard work, but before I knew it we had a system going and we were able to quickly lay the raised beds as well as lay the mulch to hold the rows down. I had no idea it took that much work, and I must admit, I have immense respect for farmers around the world who daily put their own sweat, blood, and tears into the planting, nurturing, and harvesting of their crops.

The vision is to soon plant and hopefully, harvest sometime between May to July all of the fruits and vegetables that are planted. They also have a beautiful herb garden with sprigs of rosemary, basil, and fresh mint. The owners of 180 Degree Farm expected maybe 85 volunteers to show, and an astounding 145 showed up. One concern...lunch. Lunch was to be provided and sudden panic started when the realization came that there may not be enough food for everyone. People were going home and heating up their own homemade soups and chili. Some people thought to order pizza, but when the spread was finally set up, not to my surprise, there was enough! It sent me back to the story of Jesus feeding the five thousand, potentially more. Everyone here was able to eat and eat more than their fair share of organic salads, breads, fruits and more. Of course, the pizza was not organic.

This day not only exhaust me but it opened my eyes to such an enormous need. People need food. It is essential to life. America does have its share of needy people who can't afford to buy groceries, pay their rent, or pay for their electricity. In the past I thought, "How foolish of them. They are in America. There is plenty of opportunity to better your life. Go to school! Get a job! Learn a new trade!"

How foolish am I? Not everyone has the same opportunities, yes, even in America. It is not my purpose in life to point at them, judge them, or laugh at them. It is not my purpose to criticize them, push them, or shun them. It is my purpose to embrace them, love them, help them, and equip them. It is my purpose to disciple them, just as Jesus did to all. What good does it do to tell them what to do, but not how to do it? What good does it do to tell them what they need, but not give to their needs. What good does it do to plant a seed and leave it to grow on its own? I realized that nothing can be done without us to do it.

New Hope.

2011-01-15T07:25:00.000-08:00

These last few days I feel have been incredibly crucial in my daily walk with Jesus. To be honest, I have never experienced this level of spiritual brokenness in my life. The encouragement that I have received from my parents and my husband, and others daily fuels my faith. My entire life I have dealt with anxiety. It is something that people experience and is more common among Americans than I would like to think. The daily pressures, the thoughts, the emotions that you feel can at times be debilitating. My whole life it has been a struggle whether I voiced it or not. To me, it can sound weak to admit this, but I think that God has given me innumerable strength through this. He can use what I think to be a weakness as a way to lean more on Him.

The past few days have been hard. I have prayed prayers that the Lord would provide me with renewed faith and that faith has certainly been tested. Growing up in church has been a blessing, but at times it also seemed to be a curse. My heart has been hardened for many years and I felt that the Lord had abandoned me. At times I suffered the thought that maybe He was never there. When Christians pray that they want their heart to break for what breaks His, it sounds all nice and pretty, but it is painful. I feel at times like these that is when the devil wants to come and discourage you and twist your every thought to dishonor God and to not believe. I know that from a young age God is real. I have had experiences with Him that have lead me to where I am today. I look at people who have followed Jesus for years and I see the fruit that they have beared.

The world wants us to question, they want us to doubt, 'misery loves company'. It's a miserable life not to believe. It is a terrible thing to wake up and not believe in the Creator and the One who has a calling on your life. When I started this blog my faith was in a different place. I more so wanted to believe in Jesus, and I thought I knew what that meant. I think I had more belief in my beliefs than in Jesus. Jesus is not an easy one to figure out. It must have been hard for his disciples wanting answers and Jesus not being able to give them at the time. There is so much that He has revealed, but I know there is more to be revealed in and through his followers. My heart has been so numb for so long. I have looked at those who falsely claim to know Jesus and who do not act in His ways, and I mistook that for Jesus. Its been too long since I have seen someone genuinely live out Jesus. I hope to be that person and I hope the steps can now begin here.

Truth.

2011-01-14T19:40:00.000-08:00

The things that I really like about blogging are:
1. You can say almost anything and its cool because its on a blog and it makes you seem intellectual and clever.
2. You can really be transparent and its easier because you type it and don't say it to anyone's face.
3. If you really are revealing something about yourself and later you hear it helped them, then you feel a little better about baring your soul via the internet.

This blog somewhat covers all of those things, but I mainly want to cover # 3.

As a young adult I have really been struggling with my faith. Although it is not supposed to be said, there are actually a good amount of references to that in the Bible. Go figure. The part that relates most to me I generally skim over. See, I look at the people in the Bible and for some odd reason think, "Man, how easy it was for them. They could see their savior right in front of their face. Why would they ever need faith?" Well, the truth is that Jesus was only doing ministry (that is recorded) for a short time before his death. He ministered not only to the random crowds and individuals, but also daily with his disciples. Even 'doubting' Thomas had times where he struggled to believe and there Jesus was staring him right in the face. There is something sobering, yet unsettling about unbelief. I am not talking about simple doubt, or even a "how could it be?" kind of moment. I am talking about pure unbelief. Faith is practically nowhere to be found, and every thought seems to shatter the previous ones.

For some reason I got this notion in my head that being a Christian is supposed to be easy. 'God is always supposed to feel super close, everything makes sense, no questions asked'. The truth is that no one has everything figured out. And while that would typically send my mind reeling, I suddenly felt an enormous sense of calm. 'Good', I thought, 'I'm not alone'. I don't have every answer or everything figured out. In a world of answer-me-nows, there just is no simple way to explain faith. There are ways to acquire faith, sustain faith, grow faith, even share your faith. Sometime it just appears out of thin air. That's the thing with Jesus, you think you have Him all figured out, next thing you know, you aren't sure you had it right the first time, or the second, the third time. I know in this life something will be shown for my faith.

I am starting to read Beth Moore's books and one of them discusses the hard journey of Paul. Paul was a journeyman, that is what he did. He traveled from city to city preaching and declaring the One who was sent to save them has come. I cannot imagine that kind of pressure. I am sure through all of the doubt that was thrown his way, he may have had a few moments himself where he thought he was crazy. All I know is that on my journey I can relate to those moments. I am working all of this out with my Father.

More to come.

Snow is a Coming...

2011-01-08T06:11:00.000-08:00

I have been really interested in blogging lately, more than normal. I am not sure why, but its something that I have really been enjoying. I don't think I have a lot to say, or anything truly profound to say. Writing to me is a passion. Lately, I have had a stirring inside of me for some reason. I have had a stirring to really make some changes in my life, but to also listen to God about what this all may mean. Logan and I have been talking a lot about ministry and what route we would like to go. There are so many options, so many ways to serve. The hardest part is finding a place that we can serve, where we can belong.

Not many know or may understand my past relationship with the church. All of my life I have been going to church, that to me it's almost a part of my DNA. Now, I will readily admit, I do more complaining these days than fixing. To me, it may not be something I can fix, but I can certainly change myself. My frustrations come from a long line of downfalls and failures. My father has been a pastor and most of the time it wasn't something I enjoyed, but I knew that for whatever reason it was going to prepare me for the long run.

I feel that most of my time has been spent being bitter. Bitter over years of heartbreak and let downs, so many disappointments, there are too many to count. I have been struggling to let it go. For me, it has been an excuse to not get involved and to stay at arms length with anything involving church. The severity of this is not easily recognized by most church-goers. The fact that people expect church to be a safe place is a solid perception. I expected it to be a place that wouldn't bring hurt, disappointment, and anger. It has. Now, being almost 25 years old, I have to realize that wasn't how its supposed to be. The church is the body of Christ and it shouldn't be taken lightly. It's not a place to gain control over people's lives, make accusations, gossip, and cause trouble. It's a place that is supposed to represent Christ, a place to feed spiritually those who desire to be fed.

I don't have any answers at this point, or really any direction. All I have is stirring and a desire to be different.

That is all for now.

The Best Part

2011-01-07T18:35:00.000-08:00

I guess it doesn't come as shocking, but marriage is pretty incredible. This next week it will be 6 months that Logan and I have been married. When I thought about getting married there were a lot of things that I didn't really expect. I didn't expect to actually be living with a boy. Yep, it didn't really cross my mind too much. I guess with how fast everything was, it didn't really hit me. There was a lot of adjusting when it came to sharing space with someone. It is definitely different. Most of the time, I don't realize how much of my daily life has been altered.

The next thing I didn't expect was the fact that we would both have different biological time clocks. Logan is a morning person while I can tolerate the morning, but its not my preference. I am more of a late morning, afternoon person. We are definitely not night people and many of our nights we turn in early. This has created somewhat of a monster in the morning. Thank God I have a loving husband that can love me through that :).

I have realized that cooking is a bit of a passion of mine. I don't cook every night, but majority of the time I try and create something delicious at least a few times a week. My weeknight meals have included, fajitas, stuffed peppers, turkey chili, spaghetti, sauteed vegetables, pumpkin bread, sugar cookies, turkey burgers, steaks, on and on. Cooking helps us to control what we eat, how much we eat, and it's nice to enjoy a night at home just eating together and talking about life.

I have not come to the best part yet. The best part is that we can truly be our purest selves. I hate to think that people's perceptions are that when someone gets married they feel that they have to stay with that person. They look at it more as an obligation than something that they might actually enjoy. When you love someone fully, you want to be with them. You want to support them, care for them, help them. It comes with the territory. The best part is that we don't have to be with eachother. We have chosen eachother. I have chosen Logan and he has chosen me. When you choose the right person, it isn't always easy, but it isn't always a struggle to enjoy eachother, to love eachother, to actually be together. I remember what it felt like to force something. When it didn't work, I tried to make it work. Obviously, that didn't work :). So, I say all that to say this, the best part of marriage is when you have waited for the best person for you. I had to live without Logan to appreciate living with him for the rest of my life.

That I wouldn't trade for anything.

Year of CHANGE

2011-01-06T12:13:00.000-08:00

So it has to go without saying that at this point, it is no surprise that I would write about this past year. It has definitely been a whirlwind and a beautiful display of how unexpected life can be. I have had so many emotions this past year and so many things transpire that I wouldn't have imagined.

I went from college student to college graduate.
I went from part time worker to full time worker.
I went from single woman to wife.
I went from semi-adult to full fledged adult.
I went from living with my parents, to living with my husband.
I went from little/ no change in my life to big drastic changes!

All of this year has been such a growing experience. There is still so much that is uncertain. The things that are certain consists of having an amazing husband, who I love more everyday. I have an amazing supportive family. I have a great job with great people that can laugh, cry, and work with me. I am living in a wonderful loft in the cutest town around. I have so much that has fallen away in my life, and although its sad, I have even better coming to me! I am so grateful and so blessed, that its hard not to wonder why I would ever have a care in the world. Why would I ever been without joy or unhappy?

I thank God for this year, no matter how unprepared I was. No matter how crazy it all seemed. I am still so thankful for how this year pushed me to bigger and better things! I no longer have to pretend to be happy. I am genuinely happy and satisfied, content, and excited with life.

A new year doesn't have to be the same as all of the years before.

Whirlwind

2010-12-20T12:53:00.000-08:00

Wow. It has been forever since I have written last! Let's just say, life has gotten in the way lately.

There is something about Christmas time that always leads me to think. I tend to do that a lot, and usually I write about it, as you know if you read my blog on occasion. I would have to say out of all of my 24 years here on earth, this year has been the most eventful. Much can be said about my life the past year. So much has occurred, but more importantly so much has changed. I feel as though God has done this not only for my benefit, but for my husband's, and my family's too. There were time when I was stagnant, complacent, even a little bitter. I felt like I was dying inside. There was so much potential, so much I had stopped reaching for.

I know in everyone's life, those times come and they go, but how? How could I have escaped what my life had become? Well, first I had to pray for the strength to make changes. I knew that my life wasn't what it was supposed to be. I had been on a road that I had paved myself. I was in a direction that only made me feel even more lost. I wasn't willing to let go and really allow God to intervene.

The second thing I had to do was to endure the pain of my life never being the same again. When you make changes, and you move forward and leave people, routines, and the worse parts of yourself behind, it can be bring about uneasiness. To people like me who are in essence control freaks, that can be the most painful part. My life as I knew it was over. The life I had led was comfortable, yet I was so unhappy. I wasn't living. Everyday became easier. Every step came with a little less hesitation, I was becoming me again. I was becoming the person that people used to talk about. I had come into who people used to say I was.

The third thing I had to do was focus on myself, my family, my relationship with God, and with others. I had to come back to what was important, and what was often neglected. I remember appreciating my parents more and relying more on their wisdom, love, and comfort. I don't think I ever clung to my family more. For good reasons. My family knows me best. They know my flaws, my setbacks, my hopes for the future. I remember also taking a look back at my life thus far. I was finding my dreams, I knew what I needed and what I wanted.

The fourth thing I had to do was take a risk. I knew I couldn't be cut off from the world. I knew I needed to allow people in and to be transparent. When I met my husband I had a lot of doubt. I had doubt in myself and for some reason, I was able to let go of all of that. I had found true love. I was able to live again, and I was able to more importantly be me. I was becoming not the 'better version' of myself, because I don't believe in versions. I believe you are who you are. There are good things and bad things. There are strengths and there are weaknesses inside all of us. I was, however, able to reveal both. What I noticed is that when you find the right person, the strengths, the good starts to come alive again. The true beauty shows.

Most of my life in the past year has been all the more overwhelming. Lately, when I think about how my life has changed, my head almost spins. I know that for me, these changes had to be quick. These changes had to be unexpected. These changed had to happen. For some, life happens slowly. They can make subtle changes that can make all of the difference. For me, it has to happen all at once. Although its a lot and it can be overwhelming, it is God's plan for me! It is what He desired for me! Life doesn't have to be still. It can be a moving force. It can be a whirlwind; only when you let it.

Unique

2010-11-02T14:47:00.000-07:00

I have honestly never been one to feel special. Of all the things I have accomplished in my life, I can't really ever say that I have been the one to stop talk when walking into a room. I have never really felt unique. If anything, I was an average child. I grew up in an average neighborhood, given average privileges, and had average opportunities. I feel like that changed when I went away to college. I was a college student for three years as a commuter. I dreamed of going away to college to have the experience and to really grow as an adult. When I arrived there I knew that I was in for a unique experience. I can't say I experienced what people would call a "traditional college experience". We didn't have parties, or get wasted every night. I would say that it helped me to really grow in all ways when I attended a Christian college. Although, I had my own plans; God definitely had his. When I left for college I was in a rocky relationship. I came really searching for a purpose. I honestly expected to meet my soul mate at school. When I didn't, I wasn't too disappointed. I focused on my classes, focused on a major, and focused on Jesus. Let's just say I learned a lot about Him in and out of the classroom.

I really met some inspirational people. I had never met such enthusiastic and genuine young people anywhere else. Everyone had a ministry, or a mission. I did not necessarily find mine. Some were entering into other countries, other walks of life, and for a moment I felt left out. What was wrong with me? Why couldn't I find my special niche?

I came to realize that college was not my peek. It was not the top of the mountain for me. I still had much to climb. I still have so much I still am learning day to day. Right after graduating, I focused on myself. Once again, I had a plan, although God had a much different plan. I was swearing to singleness. I wanted to take some time, prepare for Graduate school, really accomplish all I set out to do. Right smack dab in the middle of that, the love of my life literally makes his mark. We were in a bookstore and there he was. I remember back when I was a college student, and going to Barnes and Noble, I thought how cool would it be to meet my husband there...Well, it happened!

I think God may be trying to tell me something. His plans are much BIGGER than mine. They are much more extravagant. Much more unexpected. And much more unique.

From Kings to Kingdoms

2010-10-05T08:04:00.000-07:00

Everyone knows that within the Christian realm of America that is an underlying, yet not so secret phenomenon. Pastors, Bishops, Apostles, whatever they like to appoint themselves are being smeared all over newspapers, TV news shows, and the internet and their "issues" are being revealed right before our very eyes. It is no secret that we are the only country that displays respect as a means of worship within the church. These statements are not bold, nor are they misunderstood by non-church goers alike. The statement, "I don't go to church because they are filled with hypocrites", I have heard for far too long. Yet is it untrue? Is it untrue that some pastors make more money than the President? Is it untrue that some roll around in Bentley and Rolls Royce? Is it untrue that some abuse their "congregational given power" to get what they deem right to have?

If you answered no to any of these questions, than you my friend are seeing what the rest of the world has already seen. Who needs a $20,000 toilet? Who needs a private plane? Who needs body guards?

To all of you well known pastors out there, I don't believe for one second that making money is a crime, or UN-Biblical. I do, however, find it very disheartening when you make $3 million a year and yet the mother on the second row of your congregation can't pay her electric bill, or can't afford to buy formula for her baby. I find it disheartening that pastors call themselves "Men of God", but yet use their status to violate and humiliate others. I find it disgusting that many deny the truth, when it indeed shall set you free. Do I find it difficult to believe that pastors are people too? Or that they screw up? Absolutely not. My father is a pastor. He lives with integrity, dignity, truth, love, and doesn't abuse his title to get further in his own kingdom.

Last I heard we were supposed to further God's kingdom. It is amazing how some can get off course.

This rant was brought to you by a disgruntled Christian.

To Do Lists

2010-08-09T14:18:00.000-07:00

There is a point where you feel like everyday is just another day to accomplish more and more and more. It seems like life turns into one big checklist! And that is great and all, but there is more to life than checklists and getting all of your To Do's- done.

I know that mine and my husband's goal is to take life slower day to day. Sometimes it is important to remember family, friends, love, compassion, a laugh, a smile. Helping someone, talking to someone may not be on your checklist, and don't get me wrong, I LOVE organization, but in the end your list won't save you. Your color coded folders with tabs, your note pad, your pen won't save you. Saving grace isn't found in a calendar. It isn't found in a blackberry or iPhone. It is found when another person takes the time to share salvation. Only then will someone know who Jesus is.

Life gets so busy. Life can be so full of this and that. Take time to slow down and look around you. Put the list down. Put your calendar down and look. Open your eyes to hurting people who may just go about life rushing to the next thing. Help them to slow down and look at themselves. There is more to life than "Endless Crap".

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2010-07-29T08:34:00.000-07:00

I just talked with my hubs about this the other night. It has definitely been something on my heart about culture, people, the world in general. Read on.

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Balance

10/12/2009 at 3:44 AM (American Culture, Health)

It is no secret that balance is not found among the American people too often. We pretty much enjoy excess of anything. Food, money, shopping, cars, friends, marriage partners, etc. Is too much of a good thing actually a good thing? I would say no. Too much oxygen can even be harmful to your health. Too much money can be harmful to your soul. Too much freedom can be harmful to your life. I just don’t think that everything was meant to be out of balance. I think just enough of everything, is well, enough. Enough money, enough food, enough friends, enough cars (i.e. “one”) is just fine. For me too much food and not enough exercise is my battle. Its always been my struggle since my late high school years. I am a food lover, and in any point in time every activity revolves around my inability to control my food intake. Its not that eat more than I weigh, or that I am severely overweight, but I can feel myself losing control. I can feel myself aching for food and when I do, I subside to it. Recently, one of my closest friends gave me some tips on my eating habits and my work out routine. Luckily, it worked! I lost a total of 11 pounds in about a month’s time. I was feeling myself break away from my obsession with food, and food that is bad for me.
I feel that everyone in life has a struggle. They have something they crave, or they lose self control over. For me, I want my life to be in balance. I don’t want to overeat and horde food simply because I can. I don’t want to fill my body with unnecessary nutrition, but nutrition to give my body what it needs, not what it craves. Think about it. How much easier would life be if everything were in balance? If there was less time eating and more time eating what I need and being active, my body would then be in balance. Having exercise implemented into my life would give me clarity and balance in my mind. I could focus on more than just work, or school, or friends. I could just be in balance with my energy levels and my thoughts.
I think that America could use more balance. They could balance family, work, play, health, but most choose not to. Most people choose to be out of balance because that is what we have been taught. Is dedication really neglect? Of course not, but ask any corporate climber and they would say it is. Ask any father, or mother, trying to ride on the fast track to more money, more cars, more everything, and they would say it is. What we need is enough, not too much and not too little. I hope and pray on my journey I am able to find that. To find where too much and too little meet, right in the center of balance.

Our First Meal

2010-07-22T12:14:00.000-07:00

I have always been a pretty sentimental person. I like to look at old pictures and read old textbooks, and yearbooks. I really enjoy watching home videos. That has to be my fave! I just really like looking back and seeing how far I have come, my family has come, my friends have come. I think it brings everything together. You know how your present is because you are in the midst of it. You are uncertain about your future, which is exciting, but you always have the lingering of your past. This can be a joyous thing, or a frightful thing. Getting married I realized that there are two worlds, and essentially I feel like there are two lives. There is the life I used to live, by myself, only concerned for myself and what I wanted. Then, there is the married life where I am now one with someone else. Sure, we are two different people who have been on two completely different journeys up until this point. But we are still one. We are now merged into one flesh embarking on life together, no longer separate. The things I have come to see are paramount and it is a surreal feeling. You are growing up and growing away from your childhood, and moving into a new era of adulthood. All of these emotions have been hitting me. I have been so humbled by what God has done in my life. I feel so undeserving, but so grateful that God has pulled me out of my past and pushed me wholeheartedly into my future. I have never been so eager to run with life, to embrace it, and to cherish it. Life goes by so fast. One day you wake up and you're married. You feel like it took you an eternity to get here, but then when you are there you feel as though it was a blink of any eye.

Last night we had our first meal as a married couple. I wanted it to be so fantastic, so perfect. But...I sat in an hour of traffic. Phone was dead. Was completely exhausted. But when I entered the door I knew all was well. I made dinner and we sat and talked and even took a picture of the festivities. I feel as though that was a landmark in our marriage and in our path that we now are walking together. It was our first home cooked meal as a married couple. I got very sentimental, impending the picture that ensues.

Our First Meal.

Oh Perfect Day

2010-07-17T14:40:00.000-07:00

There comes a day when you wake up and you finally realize you are actually living. So many times I would wake up hoping that things would be different, waiting impatiently for change. I wasn't willing to sacrifice, however, myself or what was considered to me to be normal and comfortable. I would sulk and solemnly promise to myself that one day things would be different. It took a lot for me to walk away from what I had known a few months ago. It too a lot of strength and a lot of prayer and a lot of confirmation from those around me. I kept hearing you are doing the right thing. You are finally walking away from a life of the normal day to day and finally letting go of stagnance and complacency. I guess to be honest, this "object" was a relationship. A relationship I had known for a long time. It was something that was heading to a place I didn't want to be. And so it ended. Just like that, it ended.

Weeks later I wake up doing my new day to day routine. Lots of time spent alone, thinking, and really asking God what I wanted from life. What did I even need? What did I even want from life? Had I lost myself in the past few years so significantly that I didn't even know who I was anymore? The answer shortly is yes.

As I traveled to a bookstore in a very familiar area of town I ran into someone so unexpected. Someone who took my breath away and eventually my heart. On July 10, 2010 I made a covenant to never leave, or forsake and always love and cherish. It was the best day of my life. It is so amazing how much your life can change if you are obedient to what God is telling you. I never imagined a love so deep and a life so full of anticipation for what God has in store. It was literally my perfect day. That day you always long for. That day you always imagine, but fear it may never come. My wedding day was a breeze, such a breath of fresh air. Love does many things, and it causes us to reflect and wonder. I have dealt with a lot of hurt, but now have experienced so much healing. I have realized that my pattern of relationships before wasn't the best for me. It didn't lead anywhere. I have never experienced this much confidence and assurance. I have never been more sure of my feelings for someone, or that the decisions I am making are within God's will. I am such at peace. I am happier, I laugh more often. I often experience tears from the love that I feel.

Oh Perfect day, you came right when I needed you :) .

Best Friend, Soul Mate, Future Hubby!

2010-05-28T10:10:00.000-07:00

It is the 43 day countdown until we say "I do". What I have learned so far...
1. Marriage is first based on Friendship
2. Love is not always an emotion, but an action
3. Jesus should first and foremost be the foundation of any and every relationship
4. Genuine laughter, genuine tears of joy, and genuine love is the best on the soul
5. Dreams, hopes, and desires can be met but only when you meet in the middle
6. Being separate yet together...I am still working on that paradigm
7. Communication is key, and is essentially our best aspect
8. Did I say we are getting married in 43 days? WOW.
9. I am speechless :)

Maps, Peanut Butter and Bananas

2010-03-26T10:24:00.000-07:00

I have found out about myself that I like order, preparation, and planning in life. I like it so much its what I thrive on at times. When I first went away to college I had to master these skills in order to find balance in my life. I had to write out the due dates of my assignments and projects. I had to plan out my days and fit in time with friends and family. I felt accustomed this life and it was comfortable, and still is. But my world has been shaken and I realize that God doesn't work according to anyone's plan but His own. Things that seemed to make sense don't anymore, and I find myself having more faith in the senseless these days. How full and incredibly alive I can feel when I let go of my own plans and live according to God's. At times it is merely overwhelming. I find myself humbled, and unworthy to deserve the love God has for me. I feel so undeserving and grateful for where His hand is in my life.

I like to follow life's road map. Of course, I wrote the map, but its comforting. It's comforting to have routine, to have a plan, to have a goal. But what happens when God wipes out all of my routines and plans and goals in one fail swoop? What happens when I no longer have a life that makes sense? I like things to make sense like popcorn and a movie, or salt and pepper, or peanut butter and bananas. You know what happens when all of that is thrown out the window? You start fully living. You start to look to God for answers. You start to live a life that isn't logical, doesn't make sense, has unexpected turns.

The beauty I have always longed for is in this winding road. A road with out a map.

Painting Myself a Picture

2010-03-10T08:36:00.000-08:00

Everyone has their weaknesses and their strengths, I think both are equally beautiful. There are weaknesses we all struggle with and in the end they become stronger. I feel that challenging my weaknesses and forcing myself to stretch and grow is what life is about. I did a Strengths Quest test that determined what my strengths are and I think by sharing them it may inspire others to grow, reflect, and challenge themselves as well.

1. Learner: ...have a great desire to learn and want to continuously improve. The process of learning, rather than the outcome, excites them. [I feel that this is utterly true. I love to learn, i.e. my outrageous desire to go to graduate school].
2. Input: ...talented in the Input theme have a craving to know more and collect and archive all kinds of information. [ My love of books displays a lot of this].
3. Individualization: ...are intrigued with the unique qualities of each person. They have a gift for figuring out how people are different can work together productively. [I do not like generalizations, and I see each person as unique. I am also quite fond of giving the perfect gift- depending on the person].
4. Harmony: ...looks for consensus. They don't enjoy conflict; rather they seek areas of agreement. [I am not afraid of conflict, just see it as a waste of time, unless it is to build a closer bond between people].
5. Responsibility: ...takes psychological ownership of what they say they will do. They are committed to stable values such as honesty and loyalty. [ I am honest with everyone I know. I like to admit when I am wrong, but don't like being wrong. I am committed and loyal to do what I say I will do].

This honestly was seeing myself in a new light. It is good to know you are strong in aspects of your life. I do have a lot to improve upon, but I know that this time right now in my life is essential to my growth. I encourage everyone to take a similar test and see where you are, it may surprise you, and evoke confidence in who you are once again! This helps to paint a better picture, a clearer picture of who I am. Sometimes in life the image gets cloudy or muddled. Paint a better picture of yourself!

Love Will Find a Way

2010-03-09T11:04:00.000-08:00

Where I am in my life right now has really forced me to think a lot about love and marriage. Of course, it is my dream to one day marry and begin a family. It is a dream I have had since I was honestly three years old. I used to put pillows under my shirts and walk around acting like I was pregnant. Although I was only a small child, it had significance to me. I am reading a book right now, Saving Your Marriage Before It Starts. Although I am only in the second chapter, it gave me a lot to think about. It forced me to look at the perceptions I have of marriage. I have to be honest, I still do think married life is pretty wonderful, but a marriage isn't all about waking up with your husband, eating breakfast together, having someone to come home to, etc. Of course, that's part of it, but it isn't fantasy land every day. It is the binding of two people who are becoming one, and they are definitely becoming one through the span of their marriage.

I don't believe you become one when you walk back down the aisle after the wedding ceremony. I think it is a marriage long process. It requires learning, work, perseverance. I can't imagine having more than one job right now, but being married is kind of like a "life job", as well being a parent. I always had this idealistic image that I would marry right out of college, for some close to me they probably saw it is a goal. I realized that you can't force marriage. You can't force your perfect picture on someone either. I still have so much to accomplish, so much I didn't know I wanted to accomplish. I am still learning, and although the thought of marriage is exciting, it goes with saying that is requires God-ordained timing. God won't bless every marriage just because you want him to. He must guide my hand in every decision, including who and when I marry.

This whole preparation thing though, extremely helpful! It's good to know all of these things now. It helps me know the sacrifice love takes. It helps me see that love is not just a feeling, but a choice, a risk, and a lot of work. There are so many layers to love, but somehow it must find a way; it will find a way.

This Story Has New Meaning

2010-03-07T12:22:00.000-08:00

I have heard the "story" analogy for quite some time now. You know how it can be. Sometimes you hear a reference to life, but it doesn't mean anything to you until it becomes personal. My story never really had meaning to me, until now. Now its become personal. Now my story is taking a turn. I heard something this morning in church about a man's story. Every event was a surprise to him, but he talked about the turns and how they had lead him to where he is today. My story has meaning, my story has purpose, and my story involves Jesus. One of my good friends posted her story for all to see. The story had people, places, events that shaped her and who she is. What courage. I am still not quite sure yet how to present my story, but there are events, turns, times where my story has lead me to where I am today.

Yesterday, part of my day was relaying that story. I was talking with my Mom and we began to look back and examine my life. Man, it was eye-opening. There are so many ways it could have gone. So many other places I could be. It may be common for post-grads to look back on their life. I feel as though all I have been doing is reflecting back on my life up until this point. I have been seeing people who I haven't seen in months, talking to people I haven't talked to in months, and they have had significant meaning in my life. I have some amazing life events. The most important one is taking my life and giving it to Christ. I wouldn't say it was an event, but a process, that up until this point may have not had as much meaning as it does to me now.

Maybe someday soon I will post my story up until now. The BIG events that have influenced me. The events that have made God real to me. He is the author of my story. Although I have felt in control thus far, I now feel completely out of control. I now feel anticipation and excitement for what is ahead. I am just seeing, waiting anxiously for Jesus to do something unexpected. My story can impact other people's stories. My life can impact another's life. That is my hope and my prayer.

Saving Face

2010-03-05T11:01:00.000-08:00

There's a lot to be said about the American Church. Its a subject I have been following my whole life. I have seen how it changes, how it progresses with time, and how its becomes less and less prevalent to the American people. There's no comparison between the life you lead and the church you go to? Or is it?

As Christians, we are to love one another. We are to love the unlovable. I spoke to a good friend of mine that pointed out that people tend to invite people that are like them. They invite those that are

1. pretty
2. popular
3. financially stable
4. attractive
5. clean
6. stagnant
7. shallow
8. complacent
9. bored
10. priviledged

Jesus did not call us to ask our friends to come to church just to come. We are supposed to love those outside of the church, those who don't enter the doors. Why shouldn't they? Do we not want our churches to mirror those on the street? Are we too afraid to approach them and offer our hands, our hearts, the lover of our souls?

It is safe to say that I am one of those too who are afraid. Church should not be a social club, or clique. We should invite those who are

1. poor
2. hurting
3. angry
4. hungry
6. lost
7. broken
8. depressed
9. homeless
10. jobless
11. hopeless
12. lacks family
13. socially awkward
14. displaced
15. alone

The list could go on forever....it's amazing how much heartbreak you can list. Must mean there is more for me and you to do through the love of Christ.

Because You are Young

2010-03-03T09:49:00.000-08:00

I have really been drawn to a certain verse in Timothy. The verse goes as this:

"Don’t let anyone think less of you because you are young. Be an example to all believers in what you say, in the way you live, in your love, your faith, and your purity." 1 Timothy 4:12

I think I am really attracted to it because it holds us young people accountable. Not only does it refer to age, but being young in your walk with Christ as well. It doesn't matter how old you are, or how much experience you have had, it is up to every Christian to be an example. I have heard this argument recently, "I would be involved with Christianity if more Christians acted as Christians".

It is true. There are so many that throw their inhibitions to the wind, they ignore those watching them, and keeping a close watch they do. The world is looking at Christians, they are watching. Why give them any reason to speculate? Why give them a reason to dismiss you and the Savior you serve? Every action is accounted for. As a Christian I will answer to the throne of God for my actions, for those I intentionally or unintentionally acted upon. It is up to me to be an example everyday, in front of and behind close doors. Because the world is watching, they are watching us, they are watching me.

There is no excuse, no reason, even if you are young.

Growing Up is Hard to Do

2010-03-01T07:22:00.000-08:00

I know that I am saying it a lot, but my life is just so surreal right now. Talk about transition! Man! I have a full-time job, I am a recent college grad, I pay my own bills (mostly), and I have had more decisions to make than ever before in my life. I feel like I am in overload mode. I don't know why I feel so "grown up", or why all of the sudden it is affecting me so much, but it is. I am just seeking someone to understand me, know what I am going through, see the truth in it all. I think its a lonely feeling, to know you are somewhere in your life, and that those around you have never experienced it. I know the place I am in right now is only an opportunity to grow and to listen to the heart of God. There is so much in my life I am being prepared to do, and it is kind of exciting to not know anything yet. Right now, I am feeling completely out of control. It is scary, but I know it is the best time to grow and reflect on my life thus far. I can't even being to tell you how much my brain races through in a day.

The thoughts seem to be endless. I am a "control freak" by nature. I like control, I like order, and most times I do not like surprises. The occasional one yes, but most times I like to plan. I learned that there is no planning, and there is no need. Life is never 100% set in stone. Its fluid, and its a process. The things I saw happening have not. The things I thought would never happen have. How much control do I have? Very, very, very little. The only thing I can control is where I place my trust. I daily have to peel away my fingers that grasp my life ever so tightly. Its a battle and struggle with myself. The only thing I long for is support, encouragement, patience, and sprinkle a good amount of grace on top of that. I find myself racing through those thoughts in my brain, but then I pause on Jesus. I can't seem to take my eyes off of Him, in a sense. How comforting to know that He is in control, that He is in my life, and saves me through the choices I make.

In my life I am growing up, and it is so hard to do- but His yoke is easy, and His burden is light.

Is it Really True What They Say?

2010-02-26T17:56:00.000-08:00

The quest for truth has been around for years, centuries, millenniums even. I have come to realize that anything you want to be true can be. Anything you deem to be truth could very well be. But is it? In a world filled with lies, it is hard to find something real, genuine and true. In my short adult life, and I do mean short. There has been much said and thought about truth. True Love. True Lies. The truth shall set you free.

That's great and all, but I am talking about something much deeper than that. The truth that lies in all of us. My truth in a spiritual arena is that Jesus is my savior, the one true God, and only He knows and holds truth. As humans we lie to ourselves everyday. We say things we don't mean, mean things we don't say, and act in complete opposition to what we just said was true before. As humans, I think there is no truth, and by no means do I mean honesty. I can be honest all day, but that doesn't make it the truth, at times I confuse the two as well. Only the truth can set you free? How true is that?

Very true. From what I have experienced in my life recently there is only one true friend, one true love, and one true counselor and knower of all. He is my Jesus. It's amazing how much junk I can try and pile in my life just to try and take enough room to fill this void I have for him. It's amazing how much untruth I can believe; how much false information I can deem as real and genuine. At this phase of my life, I can truly say that what they say about following Him is all true.

He is the way, the truth, and the life! Amen!

Brokenness Brings Strength

2010-02-14T08:37:00.000-08:00

I saw it on an episode of Gray's Anatomy once I think...The area around a wound grows stronger than the rest of the body. What does that mean for a broken heart? Will it too grow stronger? Will it too find its resilience and be able to once again be whole?

Its a hard thing to swallow that brokenness can bring forth greater strength than ever imaginable. I have endured some painful things in my life and most have been not because of my choosing. They are simply unfortunate circumstances. All of those circumstances, however, have brought me to this place. I now hold my arms up to heaven and embrace what I've so longed for, but never had the courage to reach out and touch.

Lord Jesus please hold me. You are my only hope.

GIVE continued...

2010-02-09T06:26:00.000-08:00

I love this picture! First of all, its from a Whole Foods store, which is my fave place to shop for [expensive] organic goods. Second of all, its Toms Shoes, I mean really, how awesome are they? Third of all, its creative and eye catching. I really would love for that to be at every Whole Foods store, just so I could stare at it. Oh, and fourth of all its the word "Give" and well we all know how I feel about that (previous blog).

P.S. This was not captured by me, but is on Toms Shoes blog. Check it out!

Heaven on Earth

2010-02-08T09:19:00.000-08:00

Recently, I have really been inspired by the word "give". Since I have began a new job, I have tried to think of ways that I can impact those around me financially. The first thing I thought of when I received my first check was tithing. To those of you who may not understand or recognize the concept of tithing, I am right there with you. Conceptually, the idea works, and practically the idea works, but theologically I have always had trouble. I think that it comes from a place in me that doesn't like to be told what to do, especially with my money, and those of you would probably agree. Tithing is the sum of what you make and taking ten percent and giving it to God or the church, or however you like to say it. Mind you, I have done it before. I have taken ten percent of my total earnings and scribbled the amount on a blank check. Complete with my signature I would toss it into the collection basket, and I will not hide that I had a sense of pride that day. Wow, I thought, I have done what I was supposed to do, and it feels good. Good as it felt, that wasn't the entire synopsis.

I have gone through my childhood asking my parents for money to put into the offering. Then as a teenager when I worked, I would sporadically feel convicted to give. Now as a young adult, with a steady income, I now understand more of this command. I now understand that it wasn't about giving to a building, or a pastor, or their staff. It wasn't about money magically floating up to heaven somehow, and it wasn't about feeling good about myself. Recently, I have been giving to missions. I have written checks, scribbled amounts, complete with signature I place it into their basket. These are real people on real missions. This isn't a "specify where you would like your money to go" box. These are dear and real people to me. They have journeys that I want to be a part of. It's not that I don't agree with giving to the church specifically, and if that is what you choose, the blessing is the same. I choose to give to people; I choose to give to those who are less fortunate than I. People with outstretched arms, open ears, and open hearts, who are being equipped to give to others.

The basket is different for me now...To me giving is like a bit of heaven on earth. A place to join, commune, and worship in thanks for what God has given me.

What Would Jesus Do? on Facebook?

2010-02-05T07:47:00.000-08:00

My concept of Jesus, religion, and prayer have really been strengthened since I have encountered those who do not believe what I do, or see the world as I do on blogs, etc. I think that technology has enabled people to speak their hearts and their minds more openly than they used. I don't know how Jesus would feel about skypeing one of his parables, but I feel that even technology can be used in a way that many find unimaginable. Its a way to express, debate, research. I have seen myself in these "non-believers" words. I have seen the hypocrisy and I have certainly lived it. I know that I haven't done my best to live the gospel out of pure laziness, complacency, and probably countless more excuses. It pains me to know that I have intersected at the road of life with these people and have no impact on their course, or shown them the One who does. Jesus has transformed my walk and influenced every step. Since I was 6 years old I have known no different. I try to imagine myself if I had known different. If had grown up as a child or teenager without ever setting foot in a church. I close my eyes tightly and drift off into an alternative outcome. It doesn't look hopeful.

The truth is I am blessed to have walked where I have. Every footstep towards the church has caused me to step toward something better for me. Now that I am older I don't simply walk towards a church, as if that was all I needed. Now I walk towards love, mercy, grace, the God I have come to known. The love I have come to painstakingly endure. What kind of love is there without pain? Even the love of Jesus was painful; even the sacrifice came at a price, but for me it was at the cost of my alternative outcome, the cost of my dire soul.

I have recently been drawn to the book Unchristian. I really want to read it just to get a picture of what the world has seen of me, of all Christians. The world can persecute me, but I can also take a deeper glimpse into the the world that so desperately needs salvation.